anal with an aggressive butthole

>>18148127
Rectal douching beforehand until the water is clear.

>>18148157
would an enema be the same?

>>18148127
"An enema may also be used prior to anal sex or anilingus in order to enhance the sensation of intercourse, or to remove feces prior to sex, possibly reducing bacterial transmission and risk of infection, or just to reduce the possibility of fecal material or detritus from sexual activity adhering to the genitals or sex toys used during the subsequent activity."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema#Recreational_usage

I bought mine in a sex shop

>>18148164
Yes. To clarify, the enema (salt water or coffee are popular choices) goes into the douche

You can google receipies

>>18148166
>>18148173

what is an enema like? will i be on the pooper for a while afterwards getting all the liquid out? also, getting an enema doesn't really help when my digestive system can start shitting within 15 minutes of eating food

>>18148173
>salt water or coffee

Do not fucking do this, OP

>>18148127

Tell your boyfriend to fuck off. If you don't want to do it don't do it.

Poop on him.

Next time he is trying to make a move to the back door. Ibs all over him. Like a skunk.


Will either teach him a lesson or open door to knew kink for you two

>>18148186
this is something he's always wanted to try, and i want to try it with him. my first experience was with my ex and it was awful, and i want to try it with my current guy. i'm just scared that if we do it, the anxiety will make me magically summon diarrhea even though i haven't eaten anything in forever. i've been known to do that before

>>18148192
that's a bold strategy cotton, but i'd like to discourage/prevent the poop, not embrace it

>>18148157
well thats a given dood, but what OP should REALLY do is not eat before hand. or at most just eat some salad

OP, I got your back. Buy this buttplug

https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Classic-Intermediate-Traditional/dp/B000LQKAUI/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1490140254&sr=1-1&keywords=doc+johnson+butt+plug+medium

or a nicer version of about the same size

https://www.amazon.com/Tantus-Cowboy-Bronco-Anal-Plug/dp/B002CML14I/ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1490140281&sr=1-5&keywords=tantus+butt+plug

Part 1: diet and enema

Eat high fiber foods or take a fiber supplement (psyllium husk is more effective but the fiber gummies are nicer to eat)

Shit a solid log (protip: this is one of life's greatest pleasures, high fiber diet ftw)

After you take a nice, solid shit, you are probably ready to rock, but do an enema if you want to have the peace of mind that your butt is totally clean

Part 2: warming up to it

Have your boyfriend over, tell him that your ass is totally clean. Drink a little wine or smoke a little weed, whatever helps you relax. Let him eat your ass and have him slowly finger it with lots of lube. Eventually, have him put the plug inside of you. There will be a little bit of a struggle at first, but once it's in, you will feel an amazing rush.

Keep doing the foreplay with the plug in.

Part 3: going in

By now, you and your boyfriend will be super into it. Pull out the plug and let him ease his cock inside of you. Tell him to go slow.

It will probably feel fantastic and he will eventually start speeding up a bit and will maybe even finish. Don't be surprised if he gets hard twenty minutes later and wants to go for round two

Congratulations, you are now a buttslut

>>18148205
Basically your mantra is, "go slow and use lots of lube". Also, relax and get into it. You will probably not be able to relax and get into it unless you know your ass is clean. Well, that's what the fiber and enema is for. Enjoy

>>18148202

maybe whenever we start living together he'll be able to buttfuck me at hours where i haven't eaten anything yet

>>18148205
the biggest thing is my anxiety. like just me being anxious seems to conjure brown lava even when i haven't eaten anything in a while. it's more my nerves than anything, which sucks because nerves legit make ibs worse.

like, i guess if i wanted to do anal, i would have to eat healthy the entire day beforehand, not drink at all that day, not eat breakfast, do an enema, and do buttstuff before i ate lunch. i'm just not sure when i could do that

>not sure when i could do that

shit, forgot to mention the bf and i are long distance

>>18148220
palm meet face

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>>18148259
6 years now

I hope he makes the same effort for your pleasure

>>18148265
eh he'll never agree to me pegging him but he genuinely likes eating me out and he can actually make me cum, which is a nice surprise, and he's a great person outside of the bedroom so i'll keep him

>>18148264
So how is it even a point? He doesn't have to hold your hand while you avoid steaks and flush your butt clean. Make time before you see him.

>>18148270
i'm mostly meaning for whenever we do end up living together. i'm trying to figure out a way that i can regularly have anal on the menu. like i would like to know if enemas keep ibs people from having future diarrhea, but there's not really a way to find that out so i'm trying to come up with other tips and guidelines so that i can make future anal as clean as possible, even with me being anxious as fuck

>>18148181
Then dont eat
Also have you tried explaining any of this to your boyfriend

>>18148300
oh yeah, he's very aware of my digestive activity. he's not deterred from anal, which is both flattering and stressful. he also knows everything about my first time with anal, so he hasn't been pushy with it, but i'd like to surprise him. i'm just not sure how to 100% guarantee that no poop is ever going to come out of me during the entire episode, but even if i get that guarantee i'll also need to work on not getting anxious at any point because that's when my shit can hit the fan

>>18148289
>there's not really a way to find that out
A douche doesn't cost much. And you'll want one anyway. You can experiment with one on your own, and then you'll know.

I heard a pornstar said she has a bowl of oatmeal to clog her up, then an enema to flush out anything up there, then boom - film for 7 hours. Might as well follow the advice of the experts.

>>18148311
i don't think i can really get one right now, i've got roommates and we're in a cheap apartment where the walls are so thin you can hear someone make the tiniest fart in the bathroom

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uDk1dvlXNn8

>>18148317
do you know if this porn star has ibs?

No one should do anal anyways it ruins your ass and in your case especially it's not a good idea. Either tell him to fuck off, or yeah shit on him.

>>18148192

this

>>18148318
The sound of using one would be indestinguishable from whatever else you have to do on the toilet.

I'm starting to feel like this is all bait, since we gave you the answer in the first posts, and now you're just being unimaginative.

Rent a fucking motel room, and do it there then.

>>18148326
well i imagine that one or a few times won't permanently damage anything, not any more than my bowels have already done. plus i'd like to peg him at some point so it's only fair. i don't want to tell him to fuck off because he really wants to try it, and i want to see if anal can be at least moderately tolerable with someone you love, and i've heard that some chicks can even cum from anal

>>18148325
No and probably didn't. Just adding to the list of hints that may help.

>>18148328
geeze sorry dude, i was mostly trying to see if there were other people with ibs who did anal so i could see what their tips were

Dont do it. Respect youself and say no.

>>18148351
why does respecting myself mean saying no to experimenting?

>>18148331

>well i imagine that one or a few times won't permanently damage anything

Any and every time you do anal you created microscopic tears in your asshole and rectum. Unsurprisingly, passing bacteria riddled-shit over those cuts isn't a good idea. With IBS your intestinal flora is disrupted, making infection even more likely. And yeah, it only takes once to damn your sphincter and give you a whole host of problems.

> plus i'd like to peg him at some point so it's only fair

Not really, he has a prostate that is far easier to reach through his ass. You don't, and have health problems.

> i want to see if anal can be at least moderately tolerable with someone you love

Tolerable? Sure. A good idea or enjoyable? Lol nah.

>i've heard that some chicks can even cum from anal

A very, very small amount, and they only cum because the vagina is being stimulated through the vaginal wall. It's an ass-backwards (forgive the pun) way to make a girl cum.

>>18148363
the thing with IBS is that it's not really an official thing, it's just when your digestive system is inflamed and doctors don't know why. i've had multiple doctors tell me that IBS is a "catch-all" term, so who knows what's actually causing my symptoms

>A very, very small amount, and they only cum because the vagina is being stimulated through the vaginal wall.

is this your experience with anal? and on a semi-related note, it's impossible for him to make me cum from just his penis, so i'd love to find ways for me to cum without me giving a helping hand

>>18148336
Well good luck with getting fucked in the ass, OP. I respectfully suggest you get an enema, even if there might be other known unknowns, since I'd be much surprised if those made the use of a douche irrelevant.

Also, you might want to just start by letting him finger you for a period, so you get used to ass play, and less anxious about it when you finally let him slide his dick inside you.

>>18148192
Came here to post this

>>18148376
he's had his finger in my ass. the second he tries to put two in, i bleed. idk if my pooper's just tight or if i'm already fucked up from ibs

>>18148372

>the thing with IBS is that it's not really an official thing

Yes, but anytime you have intestinal distress it upsets the balance. Chronic distress means chronic and even more exacerbated unbalance.

>is this your experience with anal

No, this is the scientific facts of anal

>so i'd love to find ways for me to cum without me giving a helping hand

Lol honey it's not going to be through anal.

>>18148398
so you're against me even letting my guy have even a single instance of anal with me? that seems depressing, he'll never get to know what his fetish feels like

>>18148397

> the second he tries to put two in, i bleed.

your body is scream at you to stop and you're such a dumb bitch and your boyfriend such a depraved fucking asshole you're not going to?

>>18148406

I really won't recommend it. He'll get over it, and honestly he needs better fetishs. Shit and where it comes out of is not a thing to play with, and his hurt fee-fees aren't going to change that.

>>18148411
lol the second i start bleeding we quit, i'm not sure why you're so upset. i've made my own pooper bleed just from having a poop, if i can make my own butthole bleed i doubt having someone else make it bleed the same amount is anything to worry about. what was your experience with anal to make you feel so strongly about this?

>>18148406
mabe do it in the shower with him blindfolded and noseplugged, so that he won't notice if the disaster happens.

I really wish your imagination was more developed.

>>18148415
he can't help the fetishes he has. i have worse fetishes than him, i'll never ask to play some out, but this is something i can give to him and i want to. there are exercises you can do to strengthen your anal muscles just like your pelvic floor. as long as you use lube and slowly work up to it, it sounds like it should be fine. i just have to schedule it at a time where i haven't eaten anything in a while. or i've taken a bunch of immodium

>>18148428
yeah, my imagination with anal is pretty limited. my whole life is pretty limited by my digestive system, if i wanted to make sure i never had diarrhea i would have to eat a plain ham sandwich for every meal until we did anal

>>18148431

> i have worse fetishes than him

Medically there's not much worse than anal and scat fetishes. Hell, bloodplay is more safe and less damaging, as long as all participants are clean.

>, i'll never ask to play some out

Lol so then why can't anal be the fetish he doesn't ask to play out?

>there are exercises you can do to strengthen your anal muscles

There are, but those exercises are not magical cures that undo the damage that anal does.They also do nothing for the microscopic tears I mentioned before.

Lol this guy isn't even your husband, just a bf, and you're doing something extremely risky for his dumb fetish.

>>18148440
girl, my SO got Crohn's. I'm pretty sure your limitations are what you make of them, just like she does.

>>18148454
>Lol so then why can't anal be the fetish he doesn't ask to play out?

well anal is a lot more doable and reasonable than my fetishes

>Lol this guy isn't even your husband, just a bf, and you're doing something extremely risky for his dumb fetish

why does marriage change the rules of doing something risky for someone you care about?

>>18148455
god i feel so bad for her. the constant pain from eating just about anything, that sounds horrible. at least i have some meals where i don't have to suffer the consequences from eating probable trigger foods.

>>18148466

>well anal is a lot more doable and reasonable

How is a fetish with the highest risk of damage either of those things?

>why does marriage change the rules of doing something risky for someone you care about?

Because if you wind up leaking shit out of your ruined ass a husband has a much high likely hood of stick around to change your diaper than a bf is.

>>18148470
>How is a fetish with the highest risk of damage either of those things?

is that really the fetish with the highest risk of damage?

>Because if you wind up leaking shit out of your ruined ass a husband has a much high likely hood of stick around to change your diaper than a bf is.

we've been together for over 6 years now and i feel like his response to me having a medical issue would be the same as if he were my official husband

>>18148485

>is that really the fetish with the highest risk of damage?

Yes.

>we've been together for over 6 years now and i feel like his response to me having a medical issue would be the same as if he were my official husband

Well I mean you already have a medical issues and haven't been responding well to anal(bleeding after two fingers) and he's still not telling you to forget it, soooo. Good luck I guess?

>>18148501
>Yes

what are you comparing it to?

>>18148504

he's comparing it to all the sex he's had (0)

>>18148510
lol well i was thinking more of like, horse dicks can probably fuck up a vagina or turd cutter more than a dick can, so i'm not sure if anal is the highest risk of damage. also scat fetishes seem like they can be pretty unsafe and very likely to spread disease or just gross bacteria

>>18148504

To any other kind of sex?

>>18148540
oh gotcha, you're not comparing it to any other fetish outside of p in v. well that interests me, fisting a vagina on the reg is less harmful than a single instance of anal?

>>18148548

>you're not comparing it to any other fetish outside of p in v. well that interests me

I'm doing both. It's both riskier than PIV and it and scat are by far the most damaging of all the fetishes that are popular enough to be tracked.

> fisting a vagina on the reg is less harmful than a single instance of anal

Yes. The vagina is far stretchier, naturally lubricated, and doesn't have as much exposure to shit.

>>18148557
it's difficult to hear this, i've heard different things from other websites that make it seem easy and non-damaging to have anal sex as long as you do it carefully. i didn't do it carefully the first time, i bled, i didn't do it carefully when my current boyfriend put his fingers up in there so i bled. it's scary to me, but even though i'm new to all this i feel like it might not be as scary as you make it out to be. do you have sources/links to back up your feelings?

>>18148562

You have to realize that 1) There was and still is a big concern about not offending the gay community when talking about anal sex and 2) Most of the sites talking about anal sex are not medical sites written by medical professionals.

I can try to find some of the studies I've read, but it'll take a while because I don't have any just on hand, and of course you have to pay to see them. The webMD page on anal sex is a very basic and very glossed over overview of the risks and why it's so risky, but as a free place to start it's not bad.

>>18148562

tons of people have anal sex all the time, the person youre talking to is a repressed moron with 0 sexual experience

>>18148628

And they have a host of problems because of it. Again, you're fee-fees do not trump reality.

You might try a low FODMAP diet. UnCertain kinds of foods ferment vigorously in the gut. Some people naturally have enzymes that can break it down. Others need synthetic enzymes in beano.Anyway, FODMAPs are a category of fermentables that appear to cause problems for a lot of people with IBS. Probably due to how gas causes nerve activation or inflammation in the gut.
You might be able to minimize FODMAPs by following a very strict diet. Onions are obviously a problem if you have bowel issues, but even apples are high in FODMAPs.
You'd really need a dietcian to help you come up with a plan but you could probably just follow the diet on thurs, fri, sat, and sun and have a farty diet the other days.
here is a lit review https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4918736/