Been dating this girl for about two months, got to first base

>>18147151

when i met my girlfriend years back i was a virgin and she wasnt, after basic stuff like kissing and groping she just said she can show me more if i want and we boned the next weekend

you both sound like youre in your early-mid 20s, just be adults and if shes fine with touching and kissing just ask for her thoughts on sex one time when youre alone on a romantic evening. just trust me when i say once you get past the 1-1.5 year mark its alot easier, at this point i could tell my girlfriend any fetish or whatever and she wouldnt care, hell she has a 5x higher sex drive than me

>My barely legitimate past relationships in highschool only got as far as second base and I don't remember the circumstances.

This hurt to fucking read. You're overthinking it dude. Firstly, it doesn't go by 'first base, second base' etc. That's merely a suggestion, an afterthought that people use to categorize and describe the event. What HAPPENS is you have sexual intercourse. You fuck her. To do that, you have to turn her on. It goes a lot by feel - so you have to kind of read the situation and go by how she's feeling. If she's nervous, she'll be quivering as she kisses you - you'll be able to sense it somehow. As long as you remain smooth and pretend to be calmly confident as you make your moves and take the lead, she'll go along with it. Lastly - once you kiss, it's pretty much guaranteed that she wants you. If you're still absolutely scared shitless while her arms are around you and you're making out with her (why would you be? she clearly wants you, no matter what the fuck you do at this point) then you can go for the arm around the waist - but if you have a shred of dignity and half a testicle left attached to you, you'll slip your hand down to her vag and get some experience. Ask her where it feels good - and don't be shy. Some guys never ask and just fingerblast chicks who have to pretend to like it. Eventually you'll get the hang of it - only really takes like 2 minutes of fiddling to find out where and how - useful life skill for getting girls to do whatever the fuck you want for you.

>>18147163
Forgot to add the obvious: FINGER HER>GET HER TURNED ON>GET NAKED>FUCK BADLY>LAUGH IT OFF>TRY AGAIN

>>18147151
>Make out
>Things get heated up
>"Should I get a condom?"
>Proceed to fuck her brains out
There

>>18147151

yeah op you're stupid

do this >>18147165

then take it to the next level and look up how to eat pussy nina hartley i think its on pornhub or xvideos whatever

get the book She Comes First from the library

you eat her out good and she'll be back for more