How much do you have to know of a girl or talk to before you

OP just ask her. She either says yes or she says no. Not much else to it. You're overthinking it, and there will never be a *perfect* time to do it.

>>18146311
>but I don't think I am her type.
then dont do it.

Also this is literally the only way I can make close contact with her.
We work in separate sections.
If I straight out meet her just when she is about to leave she will know and that's really creepy.

>>18146312
If she says no she may treat me bad after, like being distant and shit because I didn't come to her directly and I don't know her a lot...
That's what I figured.
So you say it's a good idea anyway?

>>18146313
I thought as much.
Too much danger?

>>18146316

You're definitely overthinking it . Most reasonable people who are not interested will politely say they are not interested and that's that. They won't treat you bad bruv, most people grow out of that kind of immaturity after high school.

Best of luck my friend. I say go for it! So much to gain and so little to lose.

>>18146316
>Too much danger?
as in an emotional scar? yeah probably.

thing is, youve already made your decision. and its the correct one. women are shallow shit, if shes a hippie, and there are 100 good decent guys and 1 piece of shit hippie, which one do yo think shes gonna choose? they are like that.

>>18146323
I tell you what my fears are.
Like many people here I'm very introverted, not to say shy because I'm not.
But while I like social contact, I can bring myself to socialize well mostly because I'm shallow person.

Second, I don't want her friends or mines to find out my crush on her and that I miserably failed.
Needless to say they already suspect I don't get any girls.

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>How much do you have to know of a girl or talk to before you ask her on a date?

>What are you into?

>How do you feel about <thing>?

>I'll be at <place> if you want to hang out some time.

>Repeat until someone shows up at that place looking for you.

t. 20th century

>>18146329
I didn't make any decision yet.
No matter how much I know and learn about her through friends or facebook, I don't want to let go.
I'm such a stupid fuck I know.
>emotional scar

Shit man.
I know she doesn't really fancy me, and I'm in a bit of depressive state her (already eatin xanax) should I forget about it then?

>>18146316

Can't you just walk over to her section? Asking her out on a date in person is always preferable.

If she likes you just ask her if she wants to have a coffee on X day at Y hour. If she doesn't like you, there's nothing for you to do. Only way to find out is asking her out.

>>18146368
youre not fit for it atm, and you know it. you might in the future, so save yourself for that moment.

>>18146381
And risk getting rejected in front of the others?
No thanks.

>>18146387
The future is when? I'm a 26kvh, my friends are already dating all kinds of pussies

>>18146396
lol. listen to yourself. you have no chances there. bye.

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>>18146311
>How much do you have to know of a girl before you ask her on a date

Jack shit.

I personally have a date coming up with one girl who was a literal stranger to me when I asked and me asking was the first thing was the first thing said between us.

>talk to before you ask her on a date?

Optimally i'd say introduce yourself and fish for her hobbies through questions. Then you ask.

Overall though if you can just simply ask and don't muddle your shit with like 2+ weeks of casual conversation I think you're always good ask. And they'll likely say yes. Girls like it when you're forward and a lot of them really don't seem to know how to say "No" in the first place. They'd legit rather ghost you than say that as funny as that is.

>>18146406
I know how I sound
I'm asking if I should bother or not.

>>18146417
A woman told me a straight no when I asked for her number.
And we had a pretty good talk before

Just tell her that you want to get to know her better. Go get some coffee together.
Don't expect anything more than that for that firt date though.

>>18146682
Won't work.
She already knows I'm into her.

>>18146417
>me asking was the first thing was the first thing said between us.

Goddamn I was tired I meant
>me asking was the first thing said between us

Also
>Optimally i'd say introduce yourself and fish for her hobbies through questions
Reverse the order of those. Fish for hobbies through questions(preferably ones that aim to make her laugh) and THEN introduce yourself. It's best if she asks who the fuck you are before you actually get to introducing yourself though. Makes more of an impact and shows you're confident.

>>18146436
I'd wager that you came on weak or she was taken but yeah,some girls DO know how to give a flat no. Not very many though and even the ones who do know how will resort to excuses when they have affection for you.

>>18146311

The whole point of dating is to find out if you two are compatible. As long as you had one meaningful conversation that ends on a good note (nothing small talk), that person is eligible to be ASKED on a date.

>>18147607
Then get rekt little boy little cunt.
Please do not procreate.

>>18146311
>Coworker
I'm not sure that's the best idea

M8 I was kind of in the situation as you like last week and the only thing I can tell you is to legit pull your balls out of your purse strap them on tight and try to look confident and laid back chill mode and just strut on over to her section and say hey 'Suzy I was wondering if maybe you'd like to hangout and get drink sometime this weekend or something' and that is literally it she will give you one of three answers big boi
1. Yeah I'd love to blah blah planning
2. No sorry Chris
3. Who are you?