I had sex with a girl last week and immediately afterwards she began to ignore me. I've finally gotten the message and have stopped trying to talk to her, but I can't stop thinking about her. We had talked everyday for weeks before, and now there's no communication. I'm pretty hurt because I had feelings for her and was planning on asking her out.
How do I stop thinking about her? She lives in the apartment building next to mine, so I'm constantly forced to look at where she lives. I already tried having sex with someone else and it just made me feel even worse.
>>18145126
So, the sex was so awful that she never wants to see you again. Use your embarassement and shame as a tool to get over your obsession with her.
>>18145158
That's what I figured, but I just can't believe the sex was THAT bad. She accidentally peed a little when I pulled out and got super embarrassed, so I had been chalking it up to her being embarrassed at first. But it's been over a week now so I guess she wasn't impressed with my dick.
I regret having sex with her now because we'd still be friends if we hadn't.
>>18145212
Woman are mysterious creatures.
It could be you, your body part, your performance, her, her performance, her body part, justin bieber or period time.
Have you gave her free orgasm by your tongue first? If not, try that with next girl before the dicking part.
>>18145235
Sounds like a good idea. Any suggestions on how to not be so obsessive about this? It's been eating me up this past week.
>>18145500
Keep your mind occupied with other things.
I had a VERY similar experience, never did find out the route cause but I focused even harder on my weight training, vidya, friends (not in the shared circle of friends we had) and cooking.
It's taken me 3-4 months but I think I'm back to normal.
Just move forward. Don't rack your brain trying to figure out what went wrong, you'll be doing that till hell freezes over.