How do I get him to dump her?

You can't. You're brother is a shallow idiot and is going to wind up diseased and broke, and honestly he deserves it.

>>18143438

He's an idiot. Any attempt you make will just make him turn away from you and invest himself deeper into this dysfunctional relationship. All you can do is stick around long enough to tell him "I told you so" when this whole ticking time-bomb explodes in his face.

Assuming he's an adult, you don't. Let him make mistakes; mistakes help you learn and grow.

>>18143440
He does probably deserve it thinking back to how he treated some of his ex's. The last girl was very sweet. I liked her. She had a problem though with depression, and gained 30lbs. He left her without a second thought though. He barley tried to help her through it...I told him that was karma.

>>18143442
Well I keep telling him to look at her phone. If he sees that she is talking to other men (which I'm sure she is) he will leave. No man likes to be cheated on.

He needs to have a big fight with her. This girl is a master manipulator...and this needs to end suddenly.

>>18143444
He is an adult. I just don't want him to contract diseases or mess up his career. He worked hard to get where he's at and he can lose it all by hanging around someone like her. I can't make his own choices but I can give him advice

>>18143456
>I can't make his own choices but I can give him advice
Sure, but if he hasn't realised how bad for him she is, you telling him isn't going to magically open his eyes. Level-headed people aren't level-headed because others told them stuff.

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ah junkie chicks, If I was a moth they would be my flame.
Something about the sunken cheeks, lack of morals, trashiness and inevitable self destruction gives my dick the case of the diamonds.
The trick is not to get invested and never give/lend/show them you have money and never get emotionally invested.

But thats beside the point. Your brother probably has a savior complex. Thinks he can make her all better, save her and she'll be thankful for it. He wont, and she won't.
Sit him down and talk about it. Don't be aggressive don't be preachy, point stuff out but not in a friendly non aggressive way. I can't stress the non aggressive part your trying to seem like a friend pointing out kinks that add up over time, if you botch it your brother will end up getting angry at you.

>>18143542
Thanks, you are right. Being aggressive doesn't work well. He'll just block me out. I hope he sees the light, but whatever I at least made my point with him.

>>18143461
I'm sure it helps though. Ever so slightly at least. He's choosing to wear his blinders and I'm pointing vital things out that he's choosing to ignore.

My badgering might not be very effective, but I thinks it's better then doing absolutely nothing & waiting for this inevitable rollercoaster ride to come to an explosive end.

Just leave him be and figure it out on his own. Maybe slightly pushing him in the right direction wouldn't hurt