I am kind of successful, studying at the university, got lots of friends, not socially awkward (not too much at least), but still never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. why?
I feel so lonely and unappreciated
Does anyone actually have experience fighting lonelyness and depression?
>>18140610
> believing that having sex and/or a girlfriend= success
Anon there's nothing wrong with you. You're in university and that's tough. Lots of assignments and pressure. It's normal to feel lonely and be depressed when going to college away from home and old friends. Talk with someone you trust irl. This really helped me when I decided to be open about my own depression. I was doing so much work in uni and not really hanging out with people, not eating, not sleeping.
If you'd like, talk about it here. I'll listen.
>>18140610
Been in this situation, you're not putting yourself out there enough.
A list of things you can do:
Gym - Good for the mind and for the body.
Don't hang around girls you are interested in as a friend ask them out instead and make your interests known.
Don't put to much pressure on getting laid it's not be all and end all.
>>18140615
>> believing that having sex and/or a girlfriend= success
It is that way though.
The meaning of life is to reproduce thus the ones who fail to attain the companionship of the opposite sex will always be failures.
I still wouldn't know what to do. Even after getting someone to go on a date with me I would be clueless, and I wouldn't do anytinhg in fear of messing up or doing something weird
Does anyone have some suggestions or experience with what to do on a date to be charming a
>>18140610
It's Sunday. How many women did you ask out last weekend?
Zero?
That's why you don't have a girlfriend.
You have to ask women. They aren't going to ring your doorbell begging to suck your dick.
>>18140835
I dont understand how that dating thing works. I don't know what to do. I don't know how I should act on a date to not just be a friend