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I feel like I need to be the polar opposite of everything
> if the group that Im in is into something, I wont be too passionate about it
> if the group that Im in hates something, Ill be into it
> if a girl likes me, I probably wont be crazy about her
> if a girl doesent show interest, Ill go mad over her
I cant work in groups - after school I had to get myself self-employed. Every relationship that I ever had failed because of this (and I am still thriving the girls that I couldnt get).
What is wrong with me and how do I fix it?
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>>18140422
Therapy?
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>>18140425
I want to get atleast some feedback before going to a therapist
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>>18140422
I am very much similar OP, and idk too much about your background. But in my case I think I'm an inherently selfish person who craves attention and approval. I have had this desire to "win" at what I am doing, which drives me to win a girl over and as soon as she is interested in me, I will lose interest. Maybe you are the same?
What I found that helped me, is really do some introspective thinking. Look back at your childhood, your upbringing, the dynamics of all your family/friends/romantic relationships. And I agree with the other anon that if you can afford therapy it'll likely expedite the process and offer more insight than anyone here
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>>18140422
You're a contrarian asshole than thrives on negative attention.
Stop it. Get some help .
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>>18140422
“I'd never join a club that would allow a person like me to become a member.”
― Woody Allen
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