Anons, I need tips on how to find and date a monogamous construction/carpenter man.
>be me
>gay
>24
>5'11" overweight
>working on finding suitable employment for my degenerative disc disease
>cute face I'm told
>want a semi-intelligent blue collar guy
>guys I like on non-hookup dating apps/sites are either retirement age or don't even bother to give me the time of day
>feel like I need to get out to meet these people, but where? Bars seem like a bad place desu
few issues.
You are looking for someone based on their career.
They will likely be active people in those careers, with your back problems you won't be able to keep up.
They will likely be heterosexual in those career paths.
>>18139572
Yes I realize these issues. There has to be one who would appreciate a cooking and cleaning waifu who works part-time? I am good at these things. Where would I be able to find these guys away from a bar, or is this where they meet up in co-worker groups? I need advice on meeting them -- not more statistics.
>>18139513
my ex boyfriend would be perfect for you, but you would not be perfect for him.
unfortunately when you're admittedly overweight you can't afford to be picky, as oddly picky as you are, its still picky.
>>18139678
I'm not being picky in a pedantic way. I'm not looking for a specific body type, hair color, or eyes. I'm looking for a blue collar guy, but they are rarely homosexual. And I am exercising and counting calories again to get in shape, but I still haven't gotten an answer on how to find these elusive blue collar gays. Stop criticising me, and give me tips!! Please
>>18139732
Try keto and careful IF , also read the f****** sticky
>>18139789
I know how to lose weight and exercise. Let's pretend weight is no concern. Where do I meet the guys I described? That is my question. My question is not how to lose weight.
>>18140438
Place a Craig's list ad. That's all I can really think of. There's no specific place gay construction workers congregate, besides, you know, construction sites. Make an appointment for a contractor to give you a quote on renovation, then show him your asshole. Repeat as needed.
>>18139513
get active on social media and start whoring your face and chubbiness out. there have to be a couple of blue collar chubby chaser gay freaks.
apart from that, you gotta troll blue collar bars/meetups/craiglist etc. finding someone you like is a matter of hanging out in the right spots, it won't be as easy as installing grindr and hoping to find a hammer to nail you