If I was a hermit in middle and high school does that mean that

>>18136868
You never know, you may change your life completly. Your still developing.

>>18136868
you do get to reinvent yourself to an extent though

its all up to you my man
if you want your life to change, you have to make the changes to it

PS alcohol helps

>>18136868

yes. if you want to be a hermit then you will be a hermit.

and by your own account you DONT like people, ergo, you want to be a hermit.

>>18136868
>Because it's not like I'm going to suddenly be interested in or like others by going to a college

Why not? You are facing one of the few times in your life when you can completely re-invent yourself.

No one knows you or your reputation. No one knows you were antisocial or inept or a loser or anything. You face the world with absolutely no reputation or identity.

If you can pull it off you can present yourself as a chad and everyone will believe you. But even short of that, if you just smile or say hello to people - or force yourself to for a while - they will accept you as just another guy. And you might discover that you like that.

I was a hermit now I work in a investment bank telling people what to do

I still hate being around most people but now I've got the strong lone wolf thing down pretty good now

was very silent and creepy in HS, still can't get along with most people I got to know when I was young.

Went to college, got an extroverted friend, now I'm in them iddle between beeing introverted and extroverted and have a lot of fun.
It can be, that it's the people and their topics, that make you go into solity. But if you study what you are interested, the topic is great and the people can be interesting aswell.