Why do I feel this way?
I always tend to feel sad when I see attractive women. Please help.
>>18135280
How can we tell you that about yourself? We only know the two sentences you just wrote. Also, is pic related?
You are lonely and needy.
>>18135291
Yes.
>>18135295
I have a gf but she's really over protective and needy, could that have something to do with it?
>>18135302
You can have a girl and be lonely. It sounds like you are not happy with her.
Is your gf attractive?
>>18135308
I don't really think I am but I can't just leave.
>>18135311
Yea.
>>18135317
Hey, it's your relationship. Keep it as long as you want. Even if it makes you unhappy.
>>18135331
Im stuck in it, she controls every aspect of my life but if I leave she threatens suicide or comes over to threaten me.
>>18135280
Fuck off.
>>18135340
Not until I get an answer?
>>18135362
Go get some real problems.
>>18135336
So give up? I mean, you have to do something for your life to change. We can't solve your problem, only you can. You didn't even come here to talk about your girl upfront.
Stop trying to avoid conflict and realize there will be conflict. It's necessary or things to change. Unless you'd prefer things to stay the same. Then we are done here.
>>18135372
How would I bring it up? How would I do it?
>>18135378
We don't know you, we don't know her, we don't know what kind of resources/friends each of you has access to, we don't know what you can handle and what you can't. So, no, we won't make a plan for you.
You situation is shit, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that. But you have to solve this one yourself, mate. This on is on you.
>>18135386
I'm afraid I won't be able to do it and I'll be stuck for the rest of my life.
>>18135391
Being afraid is fine. Being brave is doing something even though you are afraid.
Loneliness, lad. I'm going through a phase at the moment. Loneliness contaminates your mindset and you begin to put females on an unachievable pedestal
>>18135302
>she's really over protective and needy,
low self esteem, insecure. just like you.
sounds like a good match.
>>18135658
I can't play female characters on video games or care about people other then her, even family.
>>18135685
get out of the fucking house man. nothing will change in there. GL.
>>18135302
Usually when someone complains and whines in a relationship they are the problem and not the other person. Don't do anything stupid. Try fixing your own issues first instead of sabotaging what is potentially a good thing that you just don't appreciate.
>>18135707
Okay, so I'm asking,
Is not allowing someone to play the opposite gender in video games normal in a relationship?
>>18135960
having stupid preferences is normal to being a human.
so yes.