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>>18135128

If asking her out is such a problem, then don't. Why can't you just say "Let's go do such and such"?

>>18135128
Be a little friends with her and then tell her how you feel about her. It doesn't matter, just tell. Nothings gonna shoot or knock you down. Just tell. Act like your confident if you aren't and you'll be confident.

>>18135136
Why is it always "advice" like this that pisses me off. Like, we're people not fucking programmed machines. It's almost the equivalent of telling a depressed person to just stop being sad and be happy.

Fuck off.

>>18135153

Sorry? I'm just asking you why is it so hard. And I'm telling that if it really is THAT hard to do it, then probably you two won't make a good couple.

After all, if she says "yes", you will have to hang out with her for a couple of hours. If asking her out was such an ordeal, how are you going to hold a conversation?

>>18135136
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>>18135136
>>18135153
Unless if by "ask her out" you mean 'say anything of substance to her at all', then this is good advice.
Even if its not going someplace to do planned activities, just hanging out doing virtually anything can be fun as long as you get along.
Unless if you live in the middle east or some shit, the first step is always to get them to think you're worth going out with, which means fun and confident. If you can't ask her to go do some shit after school/work not as a date, then it doesn't matter anyway cuz everything else is even harder. Just hang out once or twice, don't be pushy, and if she seems to have fun refer to it as a 'date' next time you propose hanging out. Even if she says no, at that point you've had fun and have a bit of a history together, so its not like she'll hate you or whatever.

If you can't accept advice because you're not a machine and it's not that simple, do go looking for advice in the first place.