How do I curb my desire to have a gf?

Do you want a GF to feel loved? That's not a feeling you can make go away. A GF to have sex with? Hire an escort.

Drinking may make the feeling of loneliness go away for a while.

>>18134868
Realize that women are worthless and only bring suffering and that whatever emptiness one could fill within your soul, she can and will just as easily rip open anew.
It is better to learn how to cope with the crushing loneliness, than to try to court modern females, who are without dignity and honor.

>>18134889
Not all are, friend. It sounds like you are scarred by a past experience. Not all women are as cruel as the one who hurt you.

Just have to meet the right person.

>>18134889
Did you fall in love with the one girl that gave you attention again?

>>18134892
>Just have to meet the right person.
Not that guy, but for a lot of anons there won't ever be a right person. Someone who doesn't reciprocate by definition isn't the right person.

>>18134895
The "Right person" is not someone who is your female/male conterpart. Its someone who accepts you and loves you for who you are. And you in return. And there's plenty of people out there for anons who fit that criteria.

>>18134897
>The "Right person" is not someone who is your female/male conterpart. Its someone who accepts you and loves you for who you are. And you in return
Yes, of course.

>And there's plenty of people out there for anons who fit that criteria.
For some anons, sure.

>>18134892
>>18134893

I don't need to be personally hurt by a woman to be aware of their nature.
Look at the culture we live in, look at the behavior that is deemed acceptable. Casual sex with strangers, using god damn dating apps to get easy sex, utter moral and social degeneracy.

I've got no desire to spend any time with a person who considers it acceptable to slut and party around until they are 30 and then become desperate to find some sucker to put babies in her and support her wrecked life.

It is revolting.
I find the idea of going to war far more pleasant than the idea of having to court modern western women. At least in war, a sense of camaraderie, dignity and honor still remain, if only with your fellow compatriots.

>>18134905
Your mother must be so proud of you.

>>18134906
Yes, she is, given that I view her and my father's relationship as the ideal, a lifelong commitment with actual dignity and genuine love shown towards each other, that has lasted over 20 years, and will most likely last the rest of their lives.

>>18134881
I want a gf to feel loved

I can deal with my sex drive since I have porn, fapping, and sex toys

>>18134909
What happened to women being worthless?

>>18134913
I spoke of modern women.
My mother is over 50 years old.
She was raised in an entirely different culture, one that still had values and principles.

>>18134911
>I want a gf to feel loved
Well, maybe you're just unlovable, OP. Better get used to it.

>>18134918
And what do you know of modern women apart from what you see on /pol/ and /r9k/?

How many female friends do you have? How many have you even tried to connect with?

But go ahead and keep reading shit online without experiencing it yourself.

>>18134924
I know that they are self centered, fickle and manipulative, ultimately only using other people for their own emotional fulfillment, and are ready to discard those people the moment they no longer find any use of them.
I speak of the above, because I experienced having a female "friend" for a while.

The notion of actual friendship, loyalty and honor are lost to them.
I suspect, that females are wholly incapable of actually understanding the very concepts.

>>18134932
Your mother would be disgusted with you.

>>18134934
Should have specified modern females.
Our culture no longer expects them to uphold such traits as loyalty and dignity, so why would they?

>>18134934
Can't reason with a zealot anon, if he's that poisoned his mother is probably a woman-hater too

>>18134949
>zealot
>woman hater

I hate dishonorable and degenerate behavior, that females of my own age so readily display. I do not hate them because they are female. I hate them for their actions.

>>18134868
don't bother
ppl on here will tell "oh you just havn't met the right women"
i've been here for 5 years and 70 dates later and boom nothing.

>>18134934
this post totally proves that women are capable of having an actual discussion, and not be "self centered, fickle and manipulative"

>>18134892
It's not about certain women being cruel, it's that given the right circumstances and the thought that she would get away with it, all women would do shady shit.

>>18134975
How the hell are people supposed to argue with you when you say "modern women are disloyal and manipulative"? It's a feeling you have, not something that can be rationally argued for or against.

>>18134977
>given the right circumstances and the thought that she would get away with it, all women would do shady shit.
an unprovable claim that just lets you feel superior to them and gives you an excuse to avoid them. Do you also believe it's very deep when edgy teenagers post about how everyone is "just like the Joker" deep down?

>>18134982
>an unprovable claim that just lets you feel superior to them and gives you an excuse to avoid them.
and whats wrong with that?

>>18134984
Nothing, if you keep it to yourself. It's a transparent attempt to rationalize feelings, don't expect people to take it seriously.

>>18134982
>Do you also believe it's very deep when edgy teenagers post about how everyone is "just like the Joker" deep down?

That's a shitty strawmen you are projecting on to me, everyone does shady stuff if they think they can get away with, it is what it is. Now imagine when society actually glorifies being a sexual degenerate? It's a nightmare.

>>18134905
*tips fedora

>>18134999
Not an argument

>>18134868

Get a life. Really, just do shit. Get a job, work on a degree, create your own bussiness.

Just do something instead of fapping.

>>18134868
>experiencing pon farr.
>resist the mating urge.
>do some intense math equations.

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>>18134868
Depression and loneliness normally helps.

Look at existing relationships and realize what cesspools of shit most of them are.

>>18135011

You seen past your fedora brim to even read that?

>>18135180
this, once I heard my lovely and totally not whore-looking cousin talk about how her bf was shit in bed and she was sleeping with 5 different guys.

>>18134924
Not him and I do have a bias since I live in the shithole of California but I can easily say that most modern women here are total garbage. Especially the white ones. I've dated plenty of them and from all walks of life. They have no sense of duty or values. They just want to party 24/7. There are of course some that aren't like that here and there but they are a dying breed in this state and they sometimes lack other important qualities.

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>>18134868
Aside from the bullshit argument that's going on, I'm very much on the same boat, and I guess that aside from the sexual aspect. You can find most of what you are looking for in friends, so I'd say branch out and meet more people/put in effort. If you do this, at the very least you will have the support a loved one could give through your network of close friends. The only thing missing is intimacy, which I have yet to find a solution for. But just through meeting people and making more friends you up the chances of finding a gf

>>18134868
try having 2 long term relationships back to back, that'll do it.

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Keep yourself busy, make sure you don't have any time to think? Read, Study, Troll. Do something that's somewhat fun to you

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>>18134892
Somethings fishy.

>>18134868
stop assessing your life by other peoples standards.
jesus said know thyself. give it a shot.

if your lonely go hang with people.

GF fox sex and maybe love, companionship can be found anywhere.

love is not a necessary component of happiness. your assuming it is.

>>18135718
Tell me your story.

>>18135775
met my first gf at 17, took her from her boyfriend she'd been with since 14 or whatever. we were together til 22. both got into taking ecstasy, coke and hitting clubs and raves but it was never really that good a romantic relationship. but she had the best pussy ive ever seen and could fuck like a champ. the last couple years it went to shit and we broke up, had a few months of fucking on and off then I was a bit of a cunt and fucked her the same night as I fucked someone else and she wouldn't speak to me again.

had about a year of fucking about then met another chick, she was 18 at the time and virgin. been together since, but its started to get really boring and we don't live together despite being together for like 6 years now. doesn't help ive been a sailor for most of the relationship. but all I can think about now that im home is that it's not what I really want and feel like I'm trapped in the relationship cause she's been so faithful. I want to be single and have no worries or responsibilities again and just go do what I want when I want without having to consider other people all the time. I feel like I can't be myself around her as I've tried to keep up this facade that I'm happy all the time and content with a boring life and in reality I just want to act like a teenager again and get fucked up and have nasty sex.

what age are you? (question unrelated to the last line of my story)

>>18135871
25.

>>18135923
if you've never had a gf i can see the appeal, its pretty much all I wanted before I'd had one. but to be honest you'll probably be disappointed at this love feeling you think you're missing out on, because in relationship A it wasn't reciprocated and that has probably fucked up relationship B.

have a conversation with a woman

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>>18134868
>>18134888

Not OP, but the more drunk I get, the lonelier I feel, if anything it's a sort of mad frustration. I just wanna find someone to support me, I need that intimacy. Honestly if sex wasn't largely prevalent I wouldn't care that much, I just want that support and love

>>18134895
I never really had a gf until a few months ago but I really like her and feel better about myself than I've ever felt. My point though is that she is not someone I would have engaged with if not for a very weird circumstance.

My advice would be this: if you haven't had a gf before like me you might find luck in places you wouldn't think to look and to look for girls you wouldn't think to like.

I don't say this as any kind of expert but letting you know my experience.

>>18134893
>mfw i'm legit that guy who falls for basically anyone who gives me a fair amount of attention

I really need to get my shit together.

>>18134999
Wasted trips.

>>18134932
>The notion of actual friendship, loyalty and honor are lost to them.

This applies to far more men then women, I've found that modern men are far more vapid and exploitative than women. Most women will actually take an interest in problems I'm facing, while men won't have any interest in me unless I have something to offer them (drink, money, drugs, etc).