Anon Helps General

I'll have to ask you to expand upon your problem. I can't give any meaningful advice. Sounds very peculiar.

You aren't motivated because you've achieved something? That's kind of like saying "help, I don't have anywhere to go because I arrived at my destination".

Do you want to always have a goal? Are you a rich philanthropist or something, that you ran out of goals? See, it's silly without better context.

>>18134762
Get more difficult goals.

>>18134805
Sorry about being vague. I meant that after I completed a goal I lose some motivation. For example, I've wanted a nice truck for about 2 years now, so i increased my income until I could afford it. A week or so after I got it I got really down and I felt really lost, cause that was my big goal for a while. Now my goal is to buy a house, I'll probably complete it in under a year, I'm just scared that once I get it I'll feel lost again. Should I set higher goals?

Goals are for losers.
Positive reaffirmation is what you need.

Uh well this is tmi but...
Since puberty I've always felt sexual attraction to women. I was in denial for a long time. Tried to convince myself I could be in relationships with men. But the thought of having sex with a man grossed me out. I figured out for certain I had no attraction towards men after sleeping with a few about a year ago. So that makes me a lesbian right? But I slept with a woman for the first time a few months ago and uh... didn't feel aroused at all... I even panicked when she wanted to go down on me and told her I was on my period.
>>18134762
Learn new skills. Mastered something? Learn something new. Never stop

>>18135088
Hey thanks for stopping in. Im the farthest from an expert on anything sexual, but maybe you were just nervous? When I was about to lose my virginity with my gf i actually cockblocked myself cause i was so nervous. Told her I didn't feel good. Maybe you were just nervous?