Is going from decently ugly to good looking for a guy just a meme? There has to be a genetic wall at some point. Like for example I was looking at pics of me as a kid and I've always had a chubby face and a slight double chin, now im older and fatter and it shows more, BUT I have good beard genetics and have a full beard so its not horrible. I want to work on myself and improve but I don't want to do it and just hit a wall halfway and thats it.
Lose weight, make more money
>>18133690
The money thing will take a super long time to get to. But the issue im bringing up is would there be a point into losing weight and all that shit if my genetics have me be more chubby naturally. Like my biggest issue is my double chin and face fat imo and I looked it up and thats not something you can focus on burning off it just goes naturally, but naturally for me its always been there.
>>18133684
Men peak in attractiveness around 30 to 35. So if you get in shape and also get into that age range you will get much more notice.
>my genetics have me be more chubby naturally
that's not a thing. you just eat stupid shit and always have because you're from a bad culture and your parent's didn't care about you being a lardass.
>>18133703
I don't want to wait 10+ years to maybe peak and look good.
>>18133708
I never had a bad diet when I was a kid, it went downhill around when I was 15 but as a kid I was perfectly fine. I looked a picture when I was 11 and I had a chubby looking face and facial features.
>>18133684
It's easier for a guy to overcome shitty genes than a girl because so much of what attracts a woman to you has nothing to do with physical appearance. Personality, confidence, ambition, social dominance, money, unavailability, talents and skills, physical fitness, all of it attracts a woman and all of it is within your ability to change or at the very least fake.
>>18133742
Now see what i've learned is you can have ALL of that but looks are a main factor. The one universal thing i've also noticed and learned that guys have to attract girls is muscles, having a decently muscular arm makes alot of girls melt.
>>18133684
your fat, stop worrying about the wall and just start running.
>>18133684
A good haircut can change everything. I used to always had my mom "line" me up. She is a great hair stylist but no barber. But just recently went to a real barber and got a real haircut and it is worlds difference. Literally turned me from a 5/10 to 7/10.
>>18133761
I have a hairdresser who i've been with for like 12 years. I have a mean cowlick so my hair has to be done a certain length else it sticks up. I tried a barber once and it went horrible.
>>18133761
pics