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How do i make conversation and hold it? Recently I've realised that I'm actually pretty boring to talk to. It's not because I'm dumb or anything, it's just that I don't have much in common with the people I interact with. So yeah, I'm asking how to not be such a drag to talk to and contribute meaningfully to conversations, and not just stand there like a stunned mullet.
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>>18131958
I just quit talking when the topic has expired itself. Ive got tired of trying to make small talk and shit so I just pretend I have something else to do and excuse myself. Dont listen to me though because I have 0 friends. Im fine with it because Id rather be alone than pretend to enjoy someones company.
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Get to know what the others are into.
Ask them. Then act interested into the subject.
Make the person talk about it.
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>>18131958
I had the same problem as you. I recommend you find internet friends. Instead of limiting yourself only to people you are able to meet, you can find people all over the Earth. It took me some time, but I eventually found some people on Steam.
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Read how to win freinds and influence people. Just listen to people and ask questions ppl just want to hear and talk about themselves
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>>18131958
Join a club
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>>18131958
If you have nothing in common with the people you talk with, talk with people you have something in common with.
What are your interests? Where would people with those interests hang out? Go there.
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>>18131958
>25 and under
Join a club
>25 and over
You are fucked. I'm not even joking.
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