Sex Tips

>>18130469
I'd you're gonna finger her clip your nails

>>18130501
Already done, anything else you can think of?

>>18130509
Tell her it's your first time cause that's just how it is and I'm sure she'll understand

>>18130469

Sorry to be a drag, but unless she is a hooker you can't be so sure this is gonna happen. I mean, go ready, but don't go expecting it.

>>18130469

Find a good position and push.

Move her legs away.

Focus on yourself, sex is done very closely, but each one wants their part in the pleasure, so don't mind too much about her.

Down there is wired differently, during sex you cannot control your body as you do when fapping, that is what I say to focus on what is more pleasant for you.

Finger her before. Once they have had their orgasm, they are not so concerned about the rest.

>>18130522
Nah, we've already talked it over and she's already said she only wants to fuck, no relationship feelings etc. Lucky me I guess.
>>18130516
I just told her I've only fucked one other girl, she knows I'm pretty inexperienced though, and quite frankly if I told her I was a virgin then there's no chance I'd fuck her since girls are really apprehensive about taking a guys virginity .

>>18130529

You want him to give her an orgasm with his fingers on his first time? Yeah, right. Too much porn, bro.

>>18130534

Or tongue.

>>18130531
>Nah, we've already talked it over and she's already said she only wants to fuck, no relationship feelings etc. Lucky me I guess.

She can still decide not to do it, though. You didn't make a contract.

>>18130534
My first time was getting a girl off with my fingers.

Shove your opinions up the dildo thread OP's ass.

>>18130553

Great. To us mortals it's actually harder to pull off, though.

>>18130553
OP here, anything you can tell me about fingering to help me out?

Okay here's some stuff.

Make sure you're impeccably clean (also clean your anus or she could smell it giving oral), wear a nice scent, shave according to your preferences. (If you want to be on the safe side, trim your pubes and shave your pits, leave the rest.) Not just for her but also because it'll give you confidence while nude that at least you smell good and are clean.

Don't be timid. Pay attention to her body language and how she responds (is she wet? are her eyes closed or out of focus? does she make noise? is her body turned towards you? does she look at your face, smile?), don't clamp down on her tits or anything, but don't treat her body like it might jump at you. Don't wait for her to guide you everywhere, make reasonable assumptions. If she's felt your dick through your jeans and you her crotch, she's likely okay with you grinding up against her a bit during kissing. Stuff like that.
Lay a heavy hand on the small of her back, or on her thigh/ass/stomach (careful with this if she's chubby). Press down softly upon her hips, press her into you while she's on your lap. Think of gently but firmly guiding/handling an animal. Think of how much you want her to feel good while you touch her, it'll help you be passionate (rather than nervous) in your touch. You're going to take care of her. (And hopefully she'll return the favor.)

Do lots of foreplay, she should be really wet and allowing for easy entrance. Be mindful of your nails when touching her, especially with fingering. "Weigh" her breasts, cup them from below sooner than reaching for them from above. Be clear about your enjoyment, make noise (at least sighing/her name, cursing, stuff like that if you don't dare to grunt or moan) also during oral, don't make her feel like she's blowing a car crash dummy. There's lots of guides on oral out there, read some.

>>18130601
>>18130601
As for kissing, you very gently "latch" onto her lips by inhaling/sucking ever so slightly. Practice on your own skin to feel how little it takes to feel fused to (in this case) yourself. Then you open your lips, both or either of you have your head slightly tilted so your noses fit next to each other, and you slowly (or more furiously, follow her lead the first time) twirl your tongues around each other. Take her cue for how much tongue to use.

As for fingering, use the flat of your middle finger. Make sure it's wet from her juices or (preferably) lube (spit doesn't last as long but works, is a turn off to some though). Very gently press down on the clit (little bump above the vagina, follow her actual vaginal hole in a straight line to the top if you can't tell right away and wait until she gasps or whatever) and do a circling motion, you want to make it into a sort of human pulse by pushing so gently and with alternating pressure to it. Mix it up by getting more fluids, playing with her folds, maybe even her anus, licking a bit etc. Work out a rhythm.

>>18130599
You're looking for a fuckton of grooves, "wrinkly" is how they describe it. If you want to know what it actually looks like in practice, then go on one of those porn streaming sites and look for a chick who shoved a camera up her cave. It's probably out there someplace; we can just guess whatever the fuck we want and it's probably out there.

Also: just because you CAN push a button, does not necessarily mean you should. Don't jackhammer her, especially if she's inexperienced.
>first time was experienced af and liked it extra-spicy

>>18130601
>>18130607
Great post.