Recently I have been pursuing a girl, I asked her to hang out and the first time she responded she was unsure, so I proceeded to have a normal conversation, a couple of days later i asked again and she responded very curtly, so I asked her how her day was and she just ignored the message. I know I have been rejected and she is not interested. But I feel the way she handled it was kind of disrespectful to me.
My question is, should I try to be friends with her (we are a part of the same club). Or should I just be civil and polite whenever I see her at the club and in class
>>18129653
Don't speak to her unless she says something to you first, and if she asks you to do something for the club that isn't your responsibility then tell her off. If she doesn't want to be friends you can't make her.
>>18129663
Also, did I come off as creepy, or was it the right move to ask again for clarity, especially after I was left with an unsure response and then we had a good conversation. The second time, she said she wasn't sure, I just said "ok, we can talk about it in person, how've you been though" and she never responded.
>>18129653
Dude, she tried letting you down gently... Do you honestly have zero self respect to even want to date a girl who "is unsure" about dating you?
She's annoyed and doesn't want to be chased by you, leave her alone and only interact with her when you absolutely must due to the club.
>>18129653
She doesn't like you and she's not woman enough to just say it.
Leave her alone, don't bother trying to be her friend. She doesn't sound very nice
>>18130196
>>18130221
I think I miscommunicated here: I understand that she does not like me and am not going to further pursue it. All I am saying is that I hope I did not creep her out because of the implications it will have in the club.
>>18130237
Only if you're persistent after this. Pretend it didn't happen and drop pursuing behaviors and she'll be over it fast.