I think all my problems stem from my erectile dysfunction and it runs very deep. I lost my virginity at 12 to another 12 year old and had only seen porn a few times. From then until I quit at about 24 (and have relapsed a few times) I've probably been beating it to porn 3 times a day on average. During all that time I've had some girl friends and have tried to have sex, and most of the time I couldn't get hard. If I did get hard enough to put my dick in, it wasn't very fun, because the whole time I would worry about losing my boner and eventually would.
Then I quit porn, started trying to exercise and eat healthy. I've had some great sex with rock hard boners since then. The problem still remains mentally though. I still feel like I'm incapable of pleasing a woman because of growing up feeling inadequate and having relationships ruined because of it. It makes me very insecure about a woman's previous experiences because I feel I'll never compare, and if we date she'll just cheat on me so that she can be satisfied. It's crippling both mentally and emotionally.
I feel like I know the root of the problem, and even though I've been able to have some great sex recently I don't know how to overcome this deep seated insecurity/issue. Some help/advice would be fantastic. Thanks!
>>18129608
Ladies and gentlemen...
Why We Need to Protect Children from Porn, The Thread
>>18129608
>I still feel like I'm incapable of pleasing a woman because of growing up feeling inadequate and having relationships ruined because of it.
Fact is most women don't orgasm from PiV sex. If your mouth and fingers still work, you'll do fine. Get her off a few times. Listen to her moan and twitch and you be and stay harder than something that is really hard.
Go and talk to a therapist
>>18129631
I have had sex with 5 different women in my lifetime and got 4 of them off with PiV sex alone.
You either are too small, too big, or you just dont know the right angles.
>>18129636
Sure they did. That fake moaning fooled you.
>>18129636
All fake.
>>18129741
>>18129754
Seriously? You've never gotten a woman off through intercourse?
>>18129758
Not penetration alone. I'm sure it feels good for her but no climaxing.
>>18129764
I'm sorry to hear that. I guess I just have a good dick, I get my gf off vaginally every time we have sex
>>18129636
4/5 of these girls got off from PIV /=/ All girls get off from PIV
Either
>Some freakish luck there meant that you happened to meet so many girls that get off from PIV
or
>They lied
I say this as a girl who gets off from PIV. It's not the norm at all
>>18129767
Maybe she's different from my girl, r maybe it's my pencil dick, who knows.
>>18129632
In all honesty this would be the correct answer for 90% of the threads in here. Stop making excuses, blaming others for your problems and grow the fuck up would be the 99%-er