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My boyfriend, his sister, and her boyfriend are all part of the same social group. Me and the sister's boyfriend used to be okay friends but kept having personality clashes so we kept distance and haven't talked besides hello since Dec.
Both relationships are over 1 year and everyone knows so there's no accidents or forgetting here. Sister's boyfriend has a dinner and go out dancing get-together and invites my bf and excludes me. My bf was bothered and said he didn't really want to go because that was weird. I was fine with that.
The night of the event he tells me he's going out swing dancing but no more details. The next day he's telling me stories about the sister's boyfriend's party. I had no idea he went and was upset because I feel the guy obviously has negative feelings towards me.
When my bf asked the guy told my boyfriend he thought I "wouldn't care". I don't believe this, I think he just didn't want me there. Even if he did think that, there has to still be some strong dislike to exclude half of a long term couple.
Does his reason matter? Or is it always malicious to invite half a couple when you know both very well? Am I wrong being upset that my bf accepted the insult to me without telling the guy it was really rude?
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Just because you don't get along with this guy doesn't mean that your boyfriend can't hang out with him either. You're different people and you're allowed to have different friends. You should be upset with your boyfriend about lying where he was going, not this other guy for not inviting you.
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>>18129105
You're right to be upset. That's weird behavior, I would ask your bf to stop hanging out as couples.
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>>18129118
I don't have a problem with different friends, but this guy has done rude things to me in the past (blatantly ignoring me in social situations, insulting me in front of others). There was also someone at the event whom I know is interested in my bf and this guy is aware of that. It feels like he's trying to separate us.
Is it normal to be totally cool with someone who hates your significant other? Shouldn't that be bothersome?
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>>18129120
Do you think there is any point asking the guy what his problem is with me?
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>>18129271
Nah, you can't get everyone to like you.
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>>18129134
Well your boyfriend obviously doesn't care about you if he's lying to you about where he's going and then not even trying to hide it
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