My boyfriend is not an alcoholic but when he drinks it always goes out of hand. He doesn't drink too often--but every single time he does, he turns into a complete imbecile, it disgusts me utterly, a completely different person. He turns into someone I have only contempt for, and he always overdoes it--and even if he doesn't the change in his demeanor puts me off entirely and makes me hate him. He sometimes even drinks himself into a stupor. What can I do to stop him? I've been asking him to stop but he has a drink once in a while after a long day at work and I feel like a bitch telling him to quit. He's just enjoying himself. I love him but... whatever he turns into is the complete opposite of everything and anything I hold dear. What do?
3 options. You can either put up with it, dump him, or convince him to completely give it up.
Frankly I would dump him. There are plenty of guys out there who drink responsibly or not at all.
you are an awfully judgemental whore
or a delusional whore
if he has no alcohol problem then what does it matter what he does when drunk rarely, unless hurting somebody/himself
if he does why are you trying to tell yourself he doesnt have one, to make yourself feel better?
whatever
be a less of a women
you cant obviously so who cares
>the only options are break up, put up or make him stop drinking completely
literally tell him what you put into this shitpost. If he knows you don't like him blitzed but he does it anyway, maybe he doesn't actually care what you think. Also remember he is his own person and don't take his thoughts for granted.
I know how you feel OP, my bf drinks heavily as well. I'm more a pothead myself. Kinda wish we'd go back to just smoking pot again we had way more fun and stable times than when we drink. I don't know what it is with people who know their limit and just keep drinking recklessly. Honestly might have to dump him OP, I get those same feelings your talking about and it will only grow your resentment for him..I'm sorry to say there's no changing people if they don't want to change.