How to broach the fact I am a kinky shit in bed.

>>18122288
Fuck me

>>18122288
you just cant fuck a girl and tell her right in the moment '' pls put this latex suit ''
some kink need to be discuss with your partner before,
>how to bring the conversation ?
just talk about fantasies, tell her what you would like to try and go about this point, she might be open mind or not, this is her choose and you cant force heré

>>18122288

Men have more kink than women. There are women that will be into the shit you will, just keep in mind that it will be a MUCH MUCH smaller % than women who are not.

Consider a compromise, like what is the minimum required for a stable partner? Fursuits maybe for extra credit, but what is the realistic MINIMUM. That is a partner you will go for.

Also keep in mind that in a stable loving relationship, you'll lose desire for a lot of kink.

>>18122454

Yes I know that, I'll try the Fantasies talk thing. I'd never force anything, Hit and miss I guess.

>>18122502

I wouldn't tell her all your fantasies up front either. Most women will run. Start slow, like bjs (which is not kink at all), massages, lingerie...then you can bring it up later about fantasies, but don't say all of them at once.

>>18122498

Stable minimum? Oral, and openness to try something new once in a while (she can choose what. I just kind of want to try a bit of everything before I die.)

I have a bunch of stuff I like, but some of it I totally get would put women off.

I guess what I want is someone who's willing to experiment. I'd be willing to do weird stuff she wants (at least try it once).

I don't really mind compromising, But there is certain things I really would like to try at least once is all.

>>18122508

Yeah, Not stupid. I know a shit ton of the stuff is very very weird, I guess what I want is someone that is open to new things.

My last GF was resistant even trying other positions....or letting me finger her (changed her mind on that fast though lol).

>>18122510

>Oral, and openness to try something new once in a while (she can choose what. I just kind of want to try a bit of everything before I die.)
Depends on the "something new", but the vast majority of women would find this acceptable, unless socially/morally conservative/religious.

>I guess what I want is someone who's willing to experiment. I'd be willing to do weird stuff she wants (at least try it once).
Just an estimation, but maybe 15-20% of women are like this. Willing to experiment is different from "tolerates" experiments...see the difference?

>I don't really mind compromising, But there is certain things I really would like to try at least once is all.
Very very difficult to find a partner like that. Better to go to fetlife and/or a domme and/or some hookup as opposed to trying to find a partner...IF you just want to "try" it.

>>18122516
> I know a shit ton of the stuff is very very weird
Not weird to most guys on here or me. But of course most guys here are a bit autistic so that figures.

If she doesn't even want to be fingered, sounds a bit on the prudish side.

>>18122529

She really was. But it was more because I was the first man she slept with, so she was inexperienced.

>>18122523

Thanks for the advice. I guess I'll just have to keep looking. I can always try and "introduce" the idea of stuff overtime....

As for Hookups....Not my thing, I would find it hard to perform properly with a complete stranger....I find it hard to orgasm from sex as is.