So my gf had a naked photoshoot with another girl for an art

>>18121806
art project? my fuckin ass

>>18121806
thousands of art weenies are going to masturbate to your gf, that basically makes you a cuck.

If she's not your wife or fiancee of many years I think you have no say about it.

Pics or it didn't happen

>>18121827
Idk, they can fantasize all they want but he's the only one who gets to actually have her.

>>18121827
He is fucking a girl that thousands of beta fags masturbate to. Sounds more like he's cucking all of them.

>>18121806
>dating an artsy slooooot
Embrace your cuckoldry.

>>18121831
They haven't been processed yet.

>>18121830
Been together for 8 years.

>>18121806
what idiot wanna be artist chooses nude shots for their subject. Like there aren't nudes already out there. Me thinks you have two girls that wanted to get their freak on and post nudes. Let me guess they were masturbating.

>>18121841
are you the OP the dyke chose because she was somewhat whitebread and conservative and was going to masturbate.

If so everybody warned you

>>18121859
I have no idea what you a talking about.

>>18121864
I can only guess that there was another thread that made it sound like someone like you was here before.

Well, OP, why don't you talk to her about how this makes you feel uncomfortable, considering how it's nearly impossible to not be connected to pictures with your face in this modern era. Cite your concerns for privacy and her future job prospects, the permanency of the photographs, and how she can't cover them like a regrettable tattoo if she changes her mind.

Most of all, while talking to her, be sure to not make her ignore you by calling her names or acting like this is an issue of morals or character. You haven't had an issue with her abilities to moralize for eight years. This is probably an issue of possession. That will also make her uncomfortable and likely to close off from your explanations, so admit it in a way that acknowledges these emotions as something that does not control your actions.

It's a good idea to present your connected lives as a "joint venture". This often means good things, such as when my girlfriend got me on her company health insurance. Sometimes this means that you are stuck with the consequences of non-optimal choices, so talking needs to happen about big decisions.

Ask her why she needs to do a nude project, or why she wants to, artistically. Perhaps it is a course requirement.

>>18121837
Exactly. If your GF is pretty enough for other people to be masturbating over here, use that to boost your confidence. "Yeah, that's my fucking girl and you can't get anywhere near her, bitches."

It's just some risque photos, who gives a shit? There's so much free porn on the internet, and I know she seems different because you have strong feelings about her, but anyone fapping to her pics online most likely doesn't know her and never will, so she's no different from some random slut on youporn. They'll fap to her once or twice and promptly forget about it. Just take comfort in the fact that she actually chose YOU to be intimate with, naughty pics don't mean shit.

>>18121896
This pretty much. Also, Op, why not suggest being there when they take the pics? They are making them public anyways, so why would they mind? If it helps you dealing with your jellyness that should be in your gfs interest too, no?
Not even talking about the possibilty of a threesome.

>>18121879
>This is probably an issue of possession
This. And that's why I made this thread. Being together for as long as we have I know communication is key. But it is difficult to communicate that I want to control the access to and use of her body. I guess.

>>18121896
>>18121919
Thanks for the post bros.

>>18121896
>>18121919
Degenerates.

Also, post pics when they're done.

>>18121991
>not being an insecure faggot is degenerate

>>18121993
Since when is showing your nudes to everyone "normal"?

>>18122001
Whether it's "normal" was never topic in this thread.

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>>18122001
30.000 years ago.

>>18122009
If it wasn't, OP wouldn't be making this thread.

>>18122013
lol
When you are that ugly and fat, it is called desperation.

>>18122020
>If it wasn't, OP wouldn't be making this thread.
There's threads here asking whether it's okay to ask a girl how her day at work was. Asking a girl how her day at work was now isn't normal, because otherwise that OP wouldn't be making that thread?

Again, it was never topic in this thread. You just randomly brought it up and claimed someone said it was "normal" to derail the thread.

>>18121983
Maybe you could work through why you're possessive first, and then talk about those reasons. Maybe you trust her a lot, but are worried about her future privacy. Maybe you know that you are allowed to touch her, unlike others on the internet, and that she has made you different, but the thought of encouraging people to think gross shit about her bothers you. Wearing a fun skirt's one thing, letting the classmates she sees everyday be fucking awful is probably another. That's my reason for not doing some art modeling for side monies.

>>18122020
>>18122013
Hehehe. Fatness used to mean you were pretty and rich. Now, in this era of plentiful calories, it means that you have no self control and probably smell worse than average.

Standards change. It's probably meant as a depiction of fertility and not as a fapping object, anyway.

>>18122028
>Maybe you could work through why you're possessive first
Not wanting your girl to go public with naked pictures isn't what I'd call possessive. Why would someone have to be cool with that?

>>18121993
>not being an insecure faggot is degenerate
>wow someone wouldn't be okay with his gf showing pics of her naked body to the public
>he's so insecure
I don't get what you people believe makes someone have to be alright with what OP's girl does

>>18122167
No, you see, not all possessiveness is toxic. There's pathological bullshit where you can't let her have friends and are emotionally abusive, but there's also just the normal kind where you associate your significant other with yourself, and you with them. And take exception to that altering.

So, OP isn't cool with this not entirely because he's worried about her future self or safety. He's also not cool with this mainly because she's sharing something he thought was just his.

There are loads of valid reasons to not like this choice that have nothing to do with that. Including practical reasons that would also apply to single people would probably be his best bet to stopping this.

>>18122265
Alright, that makes sense. Seems like I didn't fully understand that statement

Ladies and gentlemen, I present you, the liberal free Western countries. Where your girlfriend can do anything to piss you off and you just have to accept it because muh women rights. I feel for you OP, I would also not be okay with it. But what did you expect dating an art woman? They're weird by definition.

>>18121806
Damn, this is fucked up. If she cared about you she wouldn't do this so clearly she doesn't care about you. I think your relationship is already over desu.

>>18122531
Damn, this is fucked up. If he cared about her, he would be negative about it so clearly he doesn't care about her.

>>18122493
>m-muh liberal
>m-muh womin rights
Boo fucking hoo you triggered snowflake. Spare us with your buzzword bullshit. He does not have to be okay with this, nobody said this. He has every right to not be okay with it, if that's what he feels. That, however, does not mean she has to stop doing what he dislikes. Afterall it is her life, her education and her body. Those aren't his to decide about. Her doing what he dislikes does not mean she doesn't care about him, just like him not liking what she does isn't equivalent with not caring for her. Sometimes you just can't come to terms on things, even in a relationship. Should that be the case and they can't come to an agreement they both can accept, they both need to decide how important a nude photo is to possibly end or heavily impact their relationship. But that's their absolute own issue, not some issue of m-muh femenesm liberal Clinton democrat.

Fortunately, Op, unlike you, seems mature enough to not make some random pseudo-philosophical meta issue out of this. He'll try coming to terms with her and if that doesn't work, he doesn't have to accept it, but he doesn't need to end the relationhsip either. Because he isn't a fucking toddler that immediately loses his tantrum when someone does things he doesn't like.

>>18122181
Nobody said he has to be alright with it. He does not need to be not alright with it, however.

>>18122570
> Because he isn't a fucking toddler that immediately loses his tantrum when someone does things he doesn't like.

Said the guy who loses his tantrum while writing a post on some khantonese spaghetti-slurping imageboard.

OP I will be jerkin off furiously to your artsy girlfriends nudes, just let me know when she done shooting them pics, post them here, Thanks <3

>>18121827
Let me make it clear for you

>fuck someone's wife in front of them
>they masterbate off to the side while watching.

You tell me who the cuck is

>>18122577
>Said the guy who loses his tantrum while writing a post on some khantonese spaghetti-slurping imageboard.
Yes, I said Op doesn't lose his tantrum, nothing about me. You managed to comprehend those words well, friendo. I'm sure your carer is proud of you.

>>18122590
Reading comprehension of a toddler too, I legitimately feel bad for you

I had a similar problem with my gf two years after we starting dating. She practiced acting and was required to do a sexy photoshoot because her character was supposed to be some tv model.

I thought I was going to be okay with it but then I saw the pictures and I figured I really didn't want my gf's ass with a thong all over facebook and whatnot just because it was
>art

So we talked about it and ended up discussing which kind of photos I was okay with and they only ended up publishing those. We still had lots of discussion because we hadn't agreed at first how the session should take place and I was very fucking hurt that she had taken the thong pictures in the first place, specially considering who the fuck knows what those people are going to do with the pictures because she didn't sign an exclusive over the photos, etc etc.

>tl;dr
Should have talked to her before. If you just find out you don't like it, talk to her and tell her this very same thing. Talking is the best way to get to an agreement but you need to go there open-minded otherwise you'll just en up hurting each other.

>>18122577
>I sit at home, alone, browsing some khantonese spaghetti-slurping imageboard for a hobby, fapping to the thought of touching a girl like Ops just once, while he's stretching her ass in real life
Woah, you sure showed him.

>>18122570
I think it's something that would go beyond most peoples boundaries and that's the point here.

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>>18121806

After reading this entire thread I've come to the conclusion that you should be talking about your girlfriend's choices with your girlfriend, not a bunch of virgin weebs on the internet.

It sounds like there's some concerns, both rational and irrational, that you need to work out with yourself and with her. This thread doesn't seem helpful in the slightest.

>>18122591
>You didn't comprehend my words
>n-no, you!!!!
Next level banter.

>>18122605
What goes beyond most peoples boundaries is only relevant to those 'most people' though. What matters for Op are his boundaries and those of his gf.

>>18122617
I agree with this dude.
Also because "most people" boundaries is just a code for "my boundaries that I extend to most people"

>>18121806
OP, you better get that bitch in line real quick before she becomes a full-blown porno-star

so where's the nudes OP?

>>18121806
That's fucked up. I especially hate that she's using the veil of "it was artsy" to justify it