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So I asked my wife for the divorce. I think I want to know if she is willing to say no. If she is then she still want to stay married. If she is not willing to even say "no" or "let's try counsel " I don't think she will be willing to do anything for our marriage and in that case I want the divorce.
Is this reasonable for me to do?
I'm I giving her an easy way out?
Or is this to complicated?
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You guys want more info of our marriage?
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It's unreasonable.
If you say you want a divorce then you're sending the message to her that you do not want to be with her anymore.
Two people are required for a successful relationship and if one of them does not want to be in the relationship then it's no use trying to stay together.
If I were in a relationship where my partner says that they don't really want to be with me, regardless of how I feel about the other person, I would not want to continue. Even if I were madly in love.
If you want to work with her on the relationship just tell her that. Be honest and direct, tell her that you think she doesn't really want to continue and that that's bothering you.
Don't play these stupid mind games.
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I think you may be right, but I feel that she wants the divorce but has not the courage to tell me.
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Then instead of playing games just flat out ask her, tell her how you feel and that if she truly wants a divorce then you would make peace with that.
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