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How to stop making the same mistake over and over 2017-03-11 08:05:33 Post No. 18118764
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How to stop making the same mistake over and over
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2017-03-11 08:05:33
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6 months ago my Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. I spent the next three months being productive and trying to improve myself.
I've recently started dating again and the same thing keeps happening to a degree.
First girl: Go on a couple date. Says she isn't in to me.
Second girl: go on 6 dates, make out on second, sleep with her on fifth. After sixth she says she doesn't feel "in love with me" and thinks she doesn't want a relationship at all.
Third girl: go on three dates,make out on third. She says she thinks i'm nice but she doesn't feel "That way" about me.
Every time I've set myself up for disappointment. I assume that because we keep going out and doing stuff they must like me. Then i'm told they don't and it hits my self esteem every-time. Before my long term relationship I never really was turned down much or I was turned down pre-date never after.
My problem is getting my hopes up. How do I break this trend?
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>>18118764
Just fuck and enjoy man, don't look for a connection. Let it happen on its own.
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It's a game man, at least you're having luck conversing well enough for them to meet with you more than once. Don't take it too personally of they don't want to start a committed relationship with you. Just try to enjoy meeting new women with different personalities and backgrounds and passions.
Go into it with a positive attitude and it will eventually happen.
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>>18118916
>Don't take it too personally
This is my struggle. I take it extremely personally. Because when we are on dates or messaging. I'm told they like me, they had a good time, they think i'm cute, funny or attractive.
I start to feel as if they like me more than they actually do and then i feel lied to. I know this is on me.
> Just try to enjoy meeting new women with different personalities
This part i'm actually enjoying.
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I'm the same as you. It happened 2 times in 4 months and it makes me angry.
The thing is: I have a really hard time meeting people because i hate socialising and social settings. I only met these girls because they chased me and the somehow didn't want me anymore.
If you find a solution, please let me know
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>>18118764
Lower your expectations. It's just a date and a piece of pussy and don't be in any rush to pair bond you have only been out of a relationship for 6 months. Way too soon to contemplate a replacement.
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