>No car because poor and shit vision
>No house of my own
>Girl I've liked for a long time who would probably say yes if I asked her out
What should I do?
I finally get a chance and it's before I get any of my shit together.
>>18118036
>Blame the no-car on your vision
which is not completely a lie technically. Tell her you need to do eye surgery first and that it scares you so you re taking your time.
>No house of your own
We need more details on your age/workplace etc to judge upon that.
This is just you finding problems out of nowhere coz you re anxious. First impression really is the key but don't worry about it for now.
If you gonna do it, tell her to meet at a place where there is no way you could bring a car due to parking reasons,like a mall with subway/train station but don't say big lies like "I don't wanna bring the car coz it ll take ages to find a parking spot"
>>18118050
We're both students and I have nojob. She's just turning 18 this month so she's pretty young but I don't know if that'd make her less or more understanding. I'm 22, going on 23 in June.
>First impression really is the key but don't worry about it for now.
We met back in September in college so that ship has sailed one way or the other.
>If you gonna do it, tell her to meet at a place where there is no way you could bring a car due to parking reasons,like a mall with subway/train station
I can't actually think of a place like that here and her dominant wrist is in a cast right now so I feel extra shitty for not being able to drive.
>>18118036
Good luck OP! Don't worry about those things, you said she's 18 and you are 22/23, Idk about your culture but it's okay to not have your own house or a driver's license at that age. About the job... well if you are okay with lying a bit you could say you've done some minor freelance stuff maybe? Idk if age really means too much because I've met 18 year olds that have really different maturity levels and points of view from each other.
>>18118128
Thanks, well I have worked for my dad here and there, was years ago but I'll mention it in a way that's not lying, don't feel right about lying right from the start, if there is a start.
I think I'm going to try to date her, I once just did stuff with her when the school had this big event and we walked side by side seeing what's what for like 30 minutes and it felt...right. Maybe this isn't something I should let pass me by.