How to avoid frequent unwanted sexual thoughts?
>Sees a brother and a sister
they have sex together
>sees a dad and a daughter
they have sex together
>sees my friends
they are naked
Agreed. My mind's messed up.
But I stopped porn like a month back and I'ms till facing such problems. I fap once in a week too! How do I stop these shitty thoughts and be a better person?
Nowadays everything I think is too sexual.
OP here.
I'm constantly finding ways to cope this. But I need to ask, can meditation bring this down?
>>18117635
I don't mean to be condescending, but you seem like a guy in his early teens. In which case, this is entirely normal behavior. It gets better by your early twenties.
>>18117647
I'm going to be 21 this wednesday.
Sounds like intrusive thoughts, a symptom of OCD
>>18117661
So what should I do to avoid it?
>>18118372
Get busy with life and start searching for God
>>18118372
Therapy my senpai
>>18117635
there is nothing wrong with you it isn't stopping you from living. You probably need something new to focus on
>>18118372
Guy with OCD here. Last year came seeking almost the same advice. Violent, very disturbing sexual thought. It's OCD. Go to a doctor, ask for meds and do Therapy. Don't resist it. Don't see medication and therapy as weakness. See it is a disease like any other, that needs treatment, that you need to live with. You have two voices on your head; your and OCD's. Sometimes OCD's louder than yours. With time, it'll be an easily ignorable whisper, if you do get treated.
Best of luck. I've been there, i know how terrible it feels. You're no psychopath, pedophile, necrophile, or whatever. Don't worry.
Try writing them down, it helps take away the thought's power. But I also have unwanted sexual thoughts like "I wonder what she'd look like taking dick" what I do is just keep telling myself they are normal and that everyone has them. I also write them down just to get them out of my system
Man, this is a tough issue man. You know how to handle it.
>>18118451
I found adderal helped with my intrusive thinking. It wasn't sexual although I have a high sex drive and mastubrate a lot. I have body dysmorphic disorder and I get extremely fixated on a body part and then it is all I can think about and you bet when I meet or see people all I am doing is looking at their body to investigate. It is really obnoxious but therapy with drugs helps and with time you might be able to cut down on the drugs.