Broaching a crucial question

aka "caviare"

>>18116960
you don't unless you met her off a fetish website
sad reality

>>18116980
:(

>>18116992
Actually you can find out before you know them and confirm during the first week of playing around and getting to know them. They wont admit all their own kinks (unless you have chemistry enough to ask), but they'll easily tell you about all their friends kinks.

If you're getting older though, probably just join a group or feel for any restrictive limits when you first get to know them.