If someone messages me on a dating site with a well thought out message, and they have a decent profile, but I'm not attracted to them, what should I do?
I feel bad that someone put themselves out there and don't want to ignore, but I also don't want to get their hopes up with a reply. But I feel shallow.
I ignore any "hey, hi, or what's up" messages.
>>18116922
You're not obliged to reply to strangers if you don't want to lmao
You should ignore them, and date me instead.
>>18116936
I hope you like big dicks then.
>>18116936
Hahaha well played sir
Op should i guess at least say she's not interested sorry then ignore since he took the time to post a detailed message
Just say you're not interested.
Also, you are shallow.
>>18116951
Haha why don't you just fuck the ugly bitch then she seems to be genuinely interested.
If she's got good personality and average looks at least then all good yao mean?
>>18116961
Is it really shallow to have tastes? Let's be honest, you can't just completely overlook not being attracted to someone - and it's not like online dating can tell you much more than a very base level interest. But I bet you're assuming I'm a girl still, so you're just mad.
>>18116965
I don't know, I don't wanna fuck some chick I don't find attractive just to get my rocks off and then have her think I'm interested, and end up calling me and a bunch of shit.
I've never understood dudes who will just fuck anything. Why not just masturbate? Less cleanup and awkward shit.
>>18117052
Well I'm a virgin and getting desperate... If she ain't a complete hambeast and is interesting you never know what it'll be like dude
>>18116922
Nah you're better off just not replying, if you're definitely not interested in meeting them. Your politeness would just be interpreted as an opening to flirt more, and you'll end up having to reject them even harder.
It is a little crappy, but this is how dating sites always work, it's to be expected
>>18117069
Well I'm by no means a virgin and she isn't a hambeast, but I pretty much know what it'll be like... the same as mediocre pussy with someone who ISN'T interesting.
I'm not on dating websites just to get laid though. If I were just looking to get it in, I'd go to a bar.
>>18117090
Fair play then dude do as the other guy instructed or as i did reply polite no and ghost or just ghost.
>>18116922
I don't get why people are calling you shallow. There's nothing wrong with having standards.
Anyway I would just ignore/delete the messages. You don't need to be nice or polite on a dating site, especially with people who are complete strangers.