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2017-03-11 01:37:54 Post No. 18116805
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:37:54 Post No. 18116805 [Report]
I am at university and every time I go out to an event I just sit there pretending like I am part of the group, very aware of how if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest. I never have anything interesting to say, if I even manage to say anything at all. I want to make some kind of connection with people but I'm dull as shit and I just can't bring myself to say anything half the time. What the fuck do I do?
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:42:45 Post No.18116816
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:42:45 Post No.18116816 [Report]
>if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest
Because you don't fucking say anything. You don't make friends by acting like you're part of the furniture
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:44:25 Post No.18116818
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:44:25 Post No.18116818 [Report]
>>18116805
I know that feel OP. It sucks not having anything to contribute when you see others constantly talking. I just don't understand how conversations work.
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:48:05 Post No.18116828
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:48:05 Post No.18116828 [Report]
Read books, current events, listening to podcasts

Get a hobby that isn't video games and learn to speak passionately about it.
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:52:46 Post No.18116843
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Anonymous 2017-03-11 01:52:46 Post No.18116843 [Report]
>>18116816
I am aware that is the problem. I know the solution is 'talk more' but it's one thing to understand that and another to actually be able to do it
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