I am at university and every time I go out to an event I just sit there pretending like I am part of the group, very aware of how if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest. I never have anything interesting to say, if I even manage to say anything at all. I want to make some kind of connection with people but I'm dull as shit and I just can't bring myself to say anything half the time. What the fuck do I do?
>if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest
Because you don't fucking say anything. You don't make friends by acting like you're part of the furniture
>>18116805
I know that feel OP. It sucks not having anything to contribute when you see others constantly talking. I just don't understand how conversations work.
Read books, current events, listening to podcasts
Get a hobby that isn't video games and learn to speak passionately about it.
>>18116816
I am aware that is the problem. I know the solution is 'talk more' but it's one thing to understand that and another to actually be able to do it