I've been trying for the last week to talk to girls on just about every popular app imaginable. I'm 8/10 guy and have no trouble talking to girls in person, but my experience with these apps have been a massive disappointment.
I did everything imaginable to get them to reply. Simple opener, nope. Looking to hang out, nope. Just friends, nope. Sex, nope. Start talking mass amounts of vulgar shit, nope. My profile and pictures are solid. Why don't I ever get a reply? They look at my profile multiple times, look at the message, log off. What the fuck does it take to have someone at the very least reply? Am I doing something wrong or are these apps at the point for people to inflate their ego? The only times I get a reply is from some bot.
>>18116770
welcome to online dating dude! What the fuck did you think it was supposed to be?
>>18116770
well, here's my experience with tinder. I'm at a small university town in Brazil of all places, so you can imagine the endless stream of tinder accounts. I used it 24/7 for 2 months, swiping right around 70% of girls. 2 matches. Sent a harmless "hey, how are you doing" to both, no answer. I have an ok face, not overweight or skinny-fat, actually somewhat broad shoulders, and several friends told me my profile photos and bio were fine. None of that matters, tough, because having only 2 matches with the sheer volume of accounts I swiped right is nigh impossible, haven't seen any friend living in the same area get this much of a bad result. I don't have to say this crushed what was left of my self-steem, and now I spend long nights wondering if I have some kind of terrible invisible deformity in my face or If I look like a psycho and don't have one actual friend to tell me how it is. Never again