How do I go to (gay) bars alone?
Ive been to bars with friends before and really enjoyed the atmosphere, but ive never tried talking to strangers and i definitely have never tried going alone.
I have nothing to do this weekend so i thought i might try going out on my own. Any tips on how to not just stand there awkwardly all night?
Step 1: approach gay bar
Step 2: go inside
Step 3: ????
Step 4: dicks.
>>18116727
Not even gay but... having been to plenty of gay bars and clubs (my best friend is, and she's peaced out to get laid leaving me solo on more than one occasion)
Not that hard bro.
Just go inside, sit down at the bar, say "Hey, what's up" or "Can I buy you a drink?". Easy.
The perk of being gay and at a gay bar is supposed to be that most of those social hurdles and hoops you have to jump through as a single are VASTLY reduced.
If you're uncomfortable/unable to do that while it's loud and bustling, go earlier while it's more mellow and people are more inclined to conversation to brush up on your skills, then just rely on booze powered courage for the night.