>incredibly sexually frustrated
>also sworn off porn and fapping because I have a host of penile problems
>I have always been the hornier one in relationship
>gf would basically be asexual if I never initiated
>she's going through a lot of stressful personal stuff and I've been supportive
>but my sexual needs are not being fulfilled at all
>90% sure she'll get offended if I bring it up, because her grandfather has cancer, she's handling stuff in order to be able to graduate, so my problem seems very small in comparison
>but it's been months and I'm fucking dying
What do I do? If I go back to porn that just means I won't be able to perform in actual sex, I'm a former addict and I can never go back to moderation
>>18115051
Forgot to add, I've brought it up here and there but she brushes it off pretty much instantly or changes subject
>>18115051
bruh. I don't have a gf and I'm sexually frustrated. Your sexual needs are not correlated to survival. You need to wait it out. you're not entitled to sex because you have a gf. you need to give her space.
>>18115058
How much longer? It's been months
>>18115051
Why not just wank? You don't need porn to wank. Use your fucking imagination you fucking sperg.
I have a similar thing going on.
Here is a quick rundown of what I know.
>points raised by you based in logic won't help
>appeal to her emotionally, tell her how not having sex with her makes you feel
>masturbation won't really help, you want pussy not hand
>get a flashlight. Feels so good once your hard watching porn is redundant
What penile problems?
>>18115051
1) you can fap WITHOUT porn
2) you should realize what your priorities are in the relationship and act accordingly
3) gf isnt just walking vagina BUT
4) she should know that you aren't emotional tampon either
5) make sure she isnt faking orgasms, some girls do. That can be reason why is she so cold.
6) relationship needs attention and work from BOTH sides. Once you take your partner for granted, you are both doomed.