Should I reach out to my ex who dumped me because she wasn't over her ex?
Now I know what you're all thinking; no. But hear me out. I dated this girl for a month and a half and it all went perfectly until she started acting all down and then revealed that she wasn't over her psychologically abusive ex. We fought, I told her to shut him out of her life, and she pretty much said "no I can't do that". She decided we shouldn't date and now we're both done. Here's why I'm so conflicted, she is going through literally the exact same thing I did with my first gf who fucked with my head too. Like it's honestly pretty scary how similar the situation is. He dumped her twice, spread rumors about her, fucked with her so badly to the point where she has to hide from him if she sees him in public, and yet somehow still thinks he's a nice guy. She's already obsessive over him and he doesn't give a fuck about her, and even if she and I never date again I just can't sit back and watch her set herself up for disaster like I did.
So what do you think?
going after a chick that wants another dude?
yea sure buddy, go for it!
...you cuck
>>18115047
Well I guess that settles it
>>18115036
In the words of a really shitty song "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" You can't save people from making mistakes, all you can do is let them make it and be there to pick up the pieces at most. Even that is not your responsibility though
Sorry man but if she dated you for 1.5 months and still havent got over her ex it means she doesnt care about you at all
Dont do it, you will only get your soul crushed
>>18115675
This, also she most likely lied to you about him like fuck.