For reasons undisclosed my dick is very sore, which led me to

I think cumming by prostate you need to have a certain kind of mindset. Like just the physical experience is just rather okay but if you get off to the fact that you're doing "forbidden" butt play etc. it's more arousing if it's your thing. More of a mental thing, you know.

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How does your dick being sore make you shove fingers up your ass? You left a part of the story out buddy.

>>18114520

kinda. everyones different, and everyone goes through phases.

for most people the ass / prostate isn't inherently sexual, but liek you said it 'complements' it. the fact that you could cum from prostate only is interesting.

for most people the prostate (or any part of the body) echoes what you feel in your dick.

a lot of people for isntance like their nipples played with. they still gotta jack off, otherwise its just like having a regular part of your body pinched.

me, its the balls. or the bottoms of my feet. or my pecs. or my ass. really anywhere. if you start rubbign something while jerking off, and build up a relationship between that body part and your cock, hteir pleasure becomes tied together.

i was at the edge once, and rubbing my feet on the wall was what drove meover the edge cuz i kept playing with the bottoms of my feet while jerking.

as a general rule if you cum while touching that part, you will feel it in that spot, but it lessens the strength of the orgasm itself.

for gay dudes / bottoms they describe it kind of like scratching an itch it feels amazing to play with it, but there is only escalation and no real 'orgasm' to scratching an itch. isntead it just becomes dull and then later sore.

so you have to mirror your ass play with dick play outside of a few rare cases.

You have to get in a certain rhythm in addition to that mental state. Better to use an object/toy than your fingers; then sit on it and go up and down in a way that feels right.

Prostate pleasure is much more intense than jerking it if you do it perfectly, but the orgasm imo isn't as good at the end. It has a higher plateau but a lower peak.

>>18114520
Kek that's how I feel during penetration as a chick.
Not worth the effort, would much rather just play with the clit.

Shame it's mandatory to bag a man. Just something I'll have to put up with.

>>18114536
Yeah I've read people talking about rewiring yourself to do that. I didn't intend to cum just from it, but the extra pleasure wasn't really worth it.

>>18114551
>can't masturbate properly due to sore dick
>ass/prostate play is pleasurable they say
>really need to cum
>heh why not

>>18114560
I didn't, I jerked off too, just not as intensely as usual. Playing with the rim felt much better for the most part. Poking the prostate felt like 3/10 good and 11/10 "I really need to let out this huge fart"

It helped me go over the edge, that I can't deny. But it was just like anything else.

>>18114562
Yeah I felt like my finger wasn't enough, but honestly? What I felt didn't make me feel like trying pursuing it that much. Maybe I can try that again later next week but I'm not really looking forward to it, mostly like a novelty.

>>18114578
Althoug my gf begs me for penetration I can tell she cums way more in other ways, hell the water faucet makes her pussy looks like it'll explode

So I feel you sista, clit is much more fun, it's the girls dick afterall. Fair enough

>>18114621
kek, yeah I know some girls get more out of it than me, but man it's just a turn off more than anything. Always presses on my bladder too much, feels like I have to piss the entire time, even if I completely emptied my bladder beforehand.
And I absolutely hate the feeling of needing to pee more than anything else in the world lol idk why. Can't stand it.

>>18114632
Have you tried just letting go? It's said it's one of the signs a girl wants to squirt. Some men find it really hot, personally I really like it, even if some say it's pee.

>>18114654
I aint into piss. I'd probably vomit lol.
Besides, not that I even believe that squirting is a real thing, and isnt just spraying piss everywhere, but wouldn't you theoretically have to be like, at orgasm to squirt?

I'm at the absolute far opposite end from orgasm.
I'm more in the "I wish he would just fucking cum already because this is terrible and I want to be done with it" mindset.

>>18114672
Honestly? I don't even know. My gf manages to do that every once in a while. They're not the mind blowing things shown in porn, but it really wastes hers and makes her really relaxed. She does orgasm but it's really different.

That's really bad though, you probably have tried just rubbing your clit during penetration right? Most guys don't seem to realize how important this little guy is, or how to manage it

Different people have different sensitivities. It's why the whole G-Spot thing is argued about so much. It's there, it's just a matter of whether or not it's really sensitive. But since some people really don't feel any pleasurable sensation from it, people debate its existence. It's like how some people don't have sensitive nipples.

It's also a matter of training. The first orgasm is usually not only the hardest but one of the least pleasurable. Generally the really good sensations kick in later, as you develop both more skill and more of an association with pleasure.

>>18114672
Squirting isn't pee, it comes from the Skene's glands. it does, however, come out of the urethra, so it can pick up the tiniest amount of fluid from there. I'm willing to bet ejaculate does, too. Procedures that detect urine don't really detect how much of it there is, just the presence of it.

Besides, the tubes that urine exits the bladder from close during sexual arousal. This happens in both men and women, to prevent peeing during sex. And it works in pretty much everybody. Have you ever tried to pee while aroused? It's damn hard.

And squirting and orgasms are not mutually inclusive. They tend to happen together, like how ejaculation and orgasm tend to happen together. A lot of tensing and muscular bearing down and all that which tends to push it out. But if the glands are full enough and you push in the right way, it can happen without orgasm. Not always, not often, but it can.

>>18114690
Yeah, I have yet to be with a dude to put any attention on the clit after foreplay. But I get it, because after the foreplay it's basically all for him. And they usually make me cum at least twice during foreplay while I hardly even have to touch them before they're ready to go in, so I think it's ok to be a little selfish.
Sometimes if I'm in a position to, I reach down and try and do it myself.
I had one dude get offended when I did once though lol. Like he was like "What am I not doing enough for you or something on my own?"
Rest never said anything. But honestly, I've just found that the tight "I'm stuffed full and have to pee" feeling from penetration just fucking overshadows anything else.
I have yet to try toys, just because I've never been with one person long enough to feel comfortable to ask.
Feel like most hook ups would be insulted if I told them I wanted to use a vibrator on the first fuck. Which is really the only fuck I'm ever offered. Queen of first dates here. I have never had a second date in the past 7 years I've been single.
>>18114697
Idk thats not what every study I've seen has said. They all say its at best the opposite, mostly piss, with small traces of the skene's glands shit.

I pee just fine when aroused. Because I hate that feeling of having to pee so much, I sometimes find that I've forgotten to pee before masturbating so I stop and go pee before I finish. Always piss just fine even halfway to orgasm.

Either way, I have no desire in spraying anyone down with my not piss. Shits just gross to me. I'd be mortified.