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I may not give a shit but I want to know what /adv/ thinks about this situation.

Friend of mine hates my guts because i'm spending too much time with the girl he likes. he already confessed to the girl, I don't see anything wrong and he hates me now.

What does /adv/ think about this?
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What are you doing with this girl when you spend time with her?
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>>18113811
Basic stuff study, talk and went out with her once to the movies.
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>>18113804

You're not doing anything wrong but his feelings are hurt. People lash out when their feelings get hurt. It has no foundation of logic. Its just raw rejection and self-loathing and it hurts.

He may be acting like a child about it but if you're on this board chances are you're both still children. He might get over it or he might not. Either way, the ball is kind of in your court. You could talk to him and try to ease some of these feelings he has or if you don't really care that much you can just tell him to fuck off or whatever.

Either way, there is a learning experience in this for the both of you. His lesson is that he's going to have to learn to process his negative emotions in a more mature way because hating someone for having something you don't is childish and he needs to grow out of it. The lesson for you is that people do crazy things when they feel hurt and it would behove you to be aware of that and possibly take steps to address it in the future because relationships are messy. This kind of thing will definitely happy again and if you hope to preserve important relationships as an adult you'll need to learn to, sometimes, acknowledge that even though something you're doing isn't intrinsically wrong there are still people's emotions at stake. Sometimes all it takes for people to begin healing and getting over things is for someone to just to acknowledge that they're hurting.
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>>18113816
youre fine
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