My girlfriend refuses to tell me what porn she watches. It bothers me. Not that she watches porn, but that she doesn't tell me what she watches. Is it wrong that it bothers me? What can I do?
>>18113668
it must be something pretty nasty.
>>18113668
Well, would you tell her all the nasty shit you've fapped to? Let her indulge her kinks, when she's comfortable she'll tell you. Besides, from your post, it sounds like you're prepared to judge her based on her taste, so it's really no wonder if she doesn't want to tell you. The bigger deal you make out of it, the less likely she'll be to tell you. Just let it slide.
>>18113668
What porn do you watch OP?
It's big cock porn and she doesn't want you to feel inadequate.
How does it bother you? like it upsets you that she doesn't feel comfortable sharing some part of her sexuality with you? or it like makes you angry?
My girlfriend didn't tell me for over a year what she was into. She gave me bits and pieces once in a while but nothing substantial. Just be understanding and let her know that you are not going to pressure her. Worked for me maybe it will work for you.
>>18113668
BLACKED.COM
>>18113825
What was she into?
>>18113867
This.
You can't say that then not gossip about your girlfriends secrets.
>>18113867
/d/ related stuff. Transformation things. Not that weird to me since I browse it too but she was emberassed by it. Her opening up to me made us feel much closer together.
>>18113668
The fact that it bothers you is the reason she won't tell you. Since it's apparently so important to you, she's terrified that you'll judge her if you think it's weird. If you played it cooler about this stuff, she probably would've told you already. Don't be nosy
>what can I do?
Accept that people have right to privacy even when they're dating and deal with the fact that there're many things you'll never know about her much like she won't know about you.
As long as she's not cheating, it's literally none of your business and you should really fuck off from people's personal stuff.
She watches BLACKED and doesn't want you to be ashamed
>>18113668
scat
>>18114002
This is unironically less concerning than watching blacked.
>>18113981
Agreed, though you were maybe a little harsh.
And, ironically, accepting this is his best chance of finding out. But that shouldn't be his motivation for accepting it.
>>18114129
>scat
>unironically less concerning than watching blacked.
Yes, this is true.