Alright /adv/ I need help.
What advice do you guys have to get over my own insecurities when it comes to my girlfriends number of sexual partners? She admitted to me shes slept with 36 people. I've only been with 12. I guess I feel really inadequate and shit now, I've always believed the number shouldn't really matter, but it's just fucking with me more than I expected it to.
We agreed that we wouldn't tell each other and leave that part a mystery, but she got super drunk and blurted it out which really pissed me off to say the least.
>>18111739
>shes slept with 36 people
That's slut level honestly. 12 is quite a lot too, but not as bad.
>>18111739
>I've only been with 12
That's still quite a bit
>>18111743
>>18111747
We've been together almost a year now and were doing great until this. I'm trying really hard to forgive and forget, but yeah, if it looks like a duck...you know the rest. Just feeling inadequate about dick size and sexual prowess if I'm being compared to that big of a group of people.
Also I never thought of 12 as that high. 10 of them were while in relationships of that makes any difference.
>>18111751
Addendum. Yeah 12 is high I guess, but for a 24 year old guy with 12 vs a 21 year old with 36 it just didn't seem as severe I suppose.
>>18111751
>21 year old with 36
I was thinking late 20s, that's even worse. Literally multiple guys every year since puberty. At the very, very least she's not a girl to settle down with.
>>18111759
Yeah. I can understand her situation to some degree. Thinking she was in the beginning of a relationship only to have the person disappear and ghost her, of turn out they have a girlfriend already and just using her.
At the same time, 36, fucking Christ. You'd think she'd have fucking learned.
She's been a great girlfriend other than dredging up the past, we'd been amazing up until this shit came out, it was the best relationship I had actually ever had.
>>18111739
Would you have slept with 36 people if you could have?
>>18111840
No.
I'd make my number 1 person if possible, and if it was the person I ended up marrying and dying with. Maybe I'm too romantic I dunno.
I already tried getting married to my high school sweet heart in the past, each other's 1st but that didn't pan out obviously.
>>18111739
Does she have some family issues or something? That's way out of line.
But hell if I know how to deal with something like that, I can barely deal with the fact that I'm a virgin at 19 myself.
>>18111864
Mom and dad are on again off again alcoholics. Pretty much it.
Her older brother is the polar opposite, been with the same person since like 1st grade.
at least you don't have a 5" dick