Is it pathetic to ask people why they stopped talking to you?

>>18109657
No. If you care about them or your relationship with them, you should ask. Sometimes people just need space to deal with their own problems or to think things through. Always ask, maybe they'll say they're angry at you, even then; at least you can talk things out. Don't give up on them if you care.

It depends on the whole situation but I'd say no, in general it's not pathetic.

>>18109664
This.

I don't think so, although it goes without saying that you are putting them in a position of power.

You stopped reaching out to them too, and there's a reason for that. Maybe you felt like you couldn't trust them with your feelings and that's why you think they stopped talking, because they weren't being honest about having a problem. Or you thought they felt your friendship stopped being convenient.

But then there are times where both parties stop talking to each other out of embarassment. You have to go with your gut in situations like this. You don't have to take any risks you don't want to.

>>18109657
No but once you get your answer and it remains with continued silence walk away. Some people use silence as a tactic to see if you care. Attention seeker