I'm a little concerned about my reputation.
Im gay, and for some reason I usually (but not always) end up falling for asian guys. 2 of my 3 bfs have been asian, and like 3 of my 5 FWBs have been asian too.
Im a little concerned that my friends are realising that i date a disproportionate amount of asians, and then thinking that im a creep/fetishizing racist. Especially my asian friends. i've had a couple of snide comments from them about "Yellow fever", but idk if theyre 100% lighthearted jokes or not.
Is there anything I can do to fix this, or is it just a nonissue?
>>18108606
its a non issue. many people develop a racial preference, in the gay community its called a rice queen. the term itself is incredibly stupid sounding, but i digress.
if any of your friends think you're a creep for liking asian guys then they arent worth having as friends to be honest.
Who the fuck cares? If you're into Asian guys, you're into Asian guys, that's it, good for you. It should be nobody else's business really.