I know that an attractive personality is largely an ineffable,

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while there is a baseline, that baseline usually indicates what has potential to be attractive rather than what is attractive.

any attractive trait that would apply to the majority of women would be a braod generalization, and the unfortunate truth is that most of it still boils down to how you look.

pic related is an exaggeration, but its more than just based in truth.

an ugly guy sits in the corner being quiet and looking around, and hes weird, creepy, stalkery.

hot guy sits in the corner being quiet and looking around, and hes stoic, a lone wolf, mysterious.

its sad but true. and becuase most people are more on a 'spectrum' of attractiveness instead of blatnatly one or the other, it really boils down to which women find him attractive.

you can post your picture in a thread for instance and half the people will want to lick your ass dry and half the others will tell you you look like a retard.

and part of it is also what physical traits you do have.

two guys can be equally attractive in different ways but get different results on what personality traits are attractive. a cute skinny guy acting like a macho bro is often seen as unattractive. a big macho man acting like a shy artsy type is generally unattractive, etc.

thats why we ask guys to post their pics when asking for seduction advice, not because we need to see how attractive they are, but because we need to see what kind of attractive they are. one size does not fit all.

> confident
> down to earth
> funny
> intelligent
> loyal
> self-reflective

non-neediness aka confidence aka not being creepy