How do most people use dating sites?

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How do most people use dating sites? 2017-03-07 05:17:42 Post No. 18108257
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How do most people use dating sites? Anonymous 2017-03-07 05:17:42 Post No. 18108257 [Report]

Okay, so I'm on three dating sites - OkCupid, POF, and Tinder. (I don't use Tinder unless I'm traveling though.)

I have a bunch of "likes" on OKC and POF, so I'm doing something right, and girls message me.

A girl wrote me a really nice note last night and I don't know how to respond. She's not ugly, but she's not as cute as I normally go for. I do appreciate her effort though.

I barely message anyone unless I think they're an 8/10+ in both looks and mutual personality. Am I going about this wrong? Do most people just get a bunch of dates and give people a chance in person to impress?

I'm shit at meeting girls IRL, so I feel like online dating is my only valuable way to meet anyone these days.

Anonymous 2017-03-07 05:31:34 Post No.18108292
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Anonymous 2017-03-07 05:31:34 Post No.18108292 [Report]

>>18108257
You have most of it down. You followed the first two rules now you just have to show up and not sperg out. Just pick the hottest one and go down from there. That's all online dating is is how attractive you are to start and if you don't also blow it with stupid messages to start.

They are just people, hold a conversation with them online for a little while then get their phone number then plan a date.

Anonymous 2017-03-07 05:44:58 Post No.18108318
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Anonymous 2017-03-07 05:44:58 Post No.18108318 [Report]

>>18108292

Well, this is my issue. I'm not concerned about sperging out, but normally I don't give anyone the time of day that I'm not immediately way interested in. Am I supposed to be going on a bunch of dates in high volume just to see how it goes?

Anonymous 2017-03-07 06:22:05 Post No.18108416
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Anonymous 2017-03-07 06:22:05 Post No.18108416 [Report]

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Yep.

if you find one you like just stick with that one. One at a time.

the goal is really never to find the perfect person because that's not possible. With each person you date you can just know what will work with you and what wont more. if that makes any sense.

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