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So there was this girl in one of my classes who would always edge closer to me each class and eventually moved next to me. She would also follow me out of the class. I kinda was unsure of my feelings at the time and am very guarded until I am familiar with someone, so I didnt try to talk to her
Now she doesn't sit near me anymore and kinda avoids eye contact. Also takes years to respond to messages. Have I screwed up, or can I salvage this?
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>>18107122

only one way to find out.
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If you are capable of suddenly turning on charm without coming across as creepy then it's salvageable. It doesn't sound like that's you, so it's probably best to just let her go.

If you want to take a shot under the "What have I got to lose" banner then just sit down next to her before class starts and say, "Hi, any interest in meeting me to talk/hang out later?" She'll probably choke on her words and it'll end awkwardly.

Then wait and see if she starts edging back or following you. If she does, find a way to encourage her that is "you."
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>>18107262
Yeah, we have a test coming up, and I message her on facebook from time to time about class, should I just go for it and ask if she wants to study with me, then be myself and whatnot?
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Sounds like a plan. Like I said earlier, expect flameout on first contact. Then see what happens after. If she stays away don't be a creeper.
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You probably waited too long and she may have lost interest. Talk to her and see if that's the case.

All you can do is learn from this and not make the same mistake again.
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