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why are there never over night solutions to improving yourself? why can't we change fast?
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>>18106568
Yes there are. Just be confident bro and dont give a fuck what other people think of you. Set goals and succed. Its all about the way you see the world and life
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>>18106568
Because Eve corrupted Adam by eating from the tree of knowledge.
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>>18106568
Wouldn't be as valuable if it were easy
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>>18106588
The son is not responsible for the sins of the father.
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>>18106576
you sure?
>>18106594
for things like getting a high social statys, I see why. but I'm taking about improving ones mind and spirit, like becoming a better organized person, not being afraid of things, staying motivated, not being selfish and whiny, etc. I also need to work on not comparing myself to others
>>18106588
why can't god let me time travel in terms past, or at least the future? there's so many things I'd improve in my life and the people I'm close to
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you can't fix years of damage in one night on a whim.
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>>18106789
how does I gain patience?
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Are you serious? If you spent more time going out and socialising with people and less complaining, maybe this wouldn't be an issue
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>>18106568
You're actually right. And it turns out there's a reason for this.

"Yourself" is primarily made up of neural networks in your brain. Neural networks form through repetition and other things. Repetition strengthens them, so long standing patterns get ingrained.

It takes time, and repetitions. to change them. They'll never go away completely, but they do weaken, and new networks form and/or get strengthened.
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>>18107948
This guy gets it. It's based on memory and the only way to become a different person is to keep repeating the qualities you want. You can't change your original way of thinking overnight unless you lose it through brain damage or hypnosis.

Repeat the qualities you want until they're ingrained. It will seem fake at first, but there will eventually be a time where it becomes you.

Or just see a hypnotist to suggest the qualities to you...
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>>18106568
Drugs work pretty well as long as you use them intelligently and responsibly, well actually, now that I think about it they work pretty well even when you abuse them like a dumbass too.
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>>18106588
Holy shit. I just thought of something. Does this refer to the point at which women evolved to be selective in their mate selection and started an evolutionary arms race that literally built civilization? Think about it, most of the shit men do, they do to attract a woman. Pursuit of technology leads to more social power, but the desire for social power in the first place is the root of all evil.
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>>18107988
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There is exactly one realistic thing it can do that will change huge amounts about your life in a couple sessions:

Get a damn therapist.
They aren't a meme, they're the most essential part of this process for anyone.
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>>18106568
Because it took your entire life up to now to get you into this mess. Change IS possible, and won't take your entire life, but it won't be overnight either.
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>>18107974
>>18107948
This is also why you like won't do it tomorrow and why engaging in serious relationships, business deals and friendships with chronic sluts, cheats and addicts is a bad idea. We are all the things we continually do.
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>>18109458
also start lifting and go on /fit/
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>>18107988
Both genders have always been selective in choosing mates you idiot, that's what mating displays are meant for. Unless you mean "consciously" choosing mates in a manner that only intelligent creatures can, in which case maybe? I always thought it was a metaphor for young women and men having sexual awakenings and waking up to how bad the world is
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>>18106568
Nothing worth having comes easy.
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