Why am I so bad at holding conversations outside of my closest

>>18106346

We have no idea. We know nothing about you. Want to be more specific?

u right. I don't know really. I guess i'm a somewhat shy person but i'm just bad at thinking of replys off the top of my head unless it's something that interests me greatly.

>>18106346
I have the same problem. I think it's because it's just that other people are shitty conversationalists. Except my closest friends and that's why they became my closest friends, because they, like me, are good at conversations.
Just my theory.

But like, I want to have conversations with people I usually just get at a loss of what to say.

>>18106367
That's a possibility.

>>18106368
I decided to pay attention to other people's small talk and it's usually the most mundane and retarded, uninteresting shit ever. Maybe we just avoid the trouble because we think it's stupid, but you gotta have stupid conversation I guess.