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Girlfriend never ask for sex 2017-03-06 10:19:11 Post No. 18104847
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Hi all, I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and our sex life has been significantly reduced, once-twice a week to once a month. The main problem is that she never ever asks or asked for sex, and recently she “stops” me when I do something sexual to her.
Apart of the deep adult talking (it seems to not to work) I’ve been preventing myself from asking for sex, and I only do it like once a month more or less. The question is, should I stop any sexual interaction until she jumps over me? Should I approach this problem in another way?
Any tips or similar experiences are welcome.
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Get a new one
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>>18104863
I was thinking about something to make her sexually active that can bring happy sex to the relationship not making me feel like a predator
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I had the same thing with my ex-wife. You can see where that went...
Going the other way, I'm actually starting to be that way with my girlfriend. I'm just not interested in sex, though I'm not at all sure if I'm not interested in sex at all or if I'm not interested in sex with her.
Sad to say, deep adult talking is the thing to do.
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>>18104883
Well, I'll plan something non sexual to treat this stuff from the most aseptic point of view, let's see what happens but I think the outcome will be the same as always.
>Why you don't ask for sex
>I dunno
>Are you sexually happy
>Yes
>Do you want something I don't know?
>No
>Then why don't you ask for sex ever?
>I dunno
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My boyfriend is like this and I eventually came to accept that he just prefers masturbating. The problem is that now I don't desire him sexually anymore.
I would say talk to her.
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>>18104906
Any tip for the conversation? I'm planning to be aseptic and understanding, but dunno how to end up having a solution
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>>18104937
She's not understanding when it comes to you. Ditch her asap. This will lead to mind-fuckery and misery.
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I have a similar issue in a relationship of 3 and a half years. What I've found is that if I want to have fun sex with her then I really have to make the effort.
Take her somewhere that she can get dressed up and feel sexy, and then seduce her properly. Or have a bath together, or give her a massage or something.
I can still have sex if I don't do that, but she's never going to be hugely receptive to it unless she's in the mood. And frankly I don't put much effort into getting her in the mood most of the time. Slowly feeling her up while we watch television doesn't cut it. Especially if she doesn't feel 'fresh' or if it's too cold or she is gassy or something.
My suspicion is that this happens in so many relationships that not much would change if I left her. And I don't really care that much.
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