Hey guys. So, this girl I'm super into hasn't been staying with me for a while and we've been hitting it off amazingly. Now, the only issue I'm having is sex and I can't figure out why I'm failing. I get her off and eat her out and then when we go to have sex I either cum when she rides me or I go soft when we try anything else and I'm afraid she's going to dislike me because of this. I feel pathetic and embarassed as this isn't really an issue I've had before and having sex with her is literally a dream come true. Any tips on performance issues or going soft during sex? Thanks, anons.
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Performance anxiety, you sound like me. What got me over the hump was communicating that it happens (and not making a big deal out of it) and that it's nothing that she does. And leave it at that, eventually you'll be more comfortable with her and you'll lose the nerves.
Also get her off the pedestal, she's special because she's your gf, but there are plenty of women like her out there.
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Good advice. When I'm not thinking too much about it we do fine but when I give it too much thought I end up nerving myself soft. Also, the pedestal thing is completely true but it's a hard thing to shake since us bring together is fairly new.