I'm in my senior year of high school and for the past four years I have had no friends. I was always relatively friendly to everyone and tried my best to be well adjusted, but no one ever felt inclined to invite me to anything (with the exeption of the four big birthday parties where they felt inclined to invite literally anyone.
I am at the point where I just don't want to pretend to be normal anymore and just feel the need to tell someone in detail about how I have no friends and then just listen to the ackward silence.
How do I make friends before I go off to college? I need to remedy my extreme deficit of social interaction.
Hey man i feel exactly just like you, and everyone probably feels the same deep inside. One suggestion, maybe you gotta be the event setter?
You can make new friends whenever you get to know someone, even if we have 2 months left. If you can't thats fine too, college is a blank slate; first two weeks, you're probably not going to learn much, so go out there meet tons of new people, then worry about cliches later when you find people you particularly like.
Does this help?
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> everyone probably feels the same deep inside
nah, I pretty much compared myself to everyone in senior year and I'm the only one without a group of friends.
I once went trough a list of my peers and couldn't find anyone like me, I've literally seen everyone else walking around / going to parties with their friend group while I'm shopping for groceries or some shit. There are lots of people who feel like me but none of them are in my immediate vicinity.
>maybe you gotta be the event setter
This requires the social skills that I never developed in my early childhood. I know that mys suggestions wouldn't get shot down, but I couldn't properly execute a plan without friends, which I don't have.
Senior in college here
Literally it's too late.
It all ends in two months. It's done. Be sad about how you wasted highschool or don't, you've got about 60 days left. This isn't your life anymore.