How did you meet your gf/bf?

>>18102388
She was an escort that I met several times. For some reason we hung out after awhile then it just went on from there.

>>18102388
I was an escort and he was this total loser. He pays for everything now. All I have to do is act like his girlfriend

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>>18102394
So she's fucking anyone with money, but you don't care because after she gets 3 or 4 other guys to shoot their cum in her mouth, she kisses you?

That's some fucked up, repugnant shit.

what advice do you seek?

>>18102394
Are you able to live with her past?

>>18102405
I'm just very into love stories ahah ><

my last gf i met at the no pants train ride

>once a year people ride the pants in their underwear
>we kept checkign ecah other out on the way to the destination
>ended up at the same bar for the 'de-briefing'
>she walks in, sees me, comes right up and asks me to dance
>i agree
>about five minutes in were dancing
>afterward i take her back to a buddy of mines and we end up having a threesome
>i ask her out again the following week
>shes from brazil, only here til the end of summer on some scholarship exchange thing
>total nerd slut, but on the volleyball team so she keeps things tight
>decide to make her my girlfriend
>take her to the pier, have a reservation for dinner at sunset looking over hte ocean
>take her on the ferris wheel, ask her to be my girlfriend (open relationship)
>we have a lot of fun for a few more months but i end up in a car accident with a brain stem injury
>im not dying by any means but it was a scary tiem and i was bed ridden
>tell her i dont want her spending her american summer in my room just watching TV while i struggle to remember anything
>she doesn't want to break up but i insist
>im better by the end of summer but shes already back in brazil

was a fun ride.

>how did you meet
I have a lot of friends in the hardcore/pop punk scene so I met him and his group through a mutual friend's band. But we didn't actually get close until I messaged him about something on twitter a couple months after we met

>What's your first impression?
I thought he had a girlfriend actually. He wasn't like the other guys, kept to
himself a lot more and wasnt just finding some fangirl to pair off with for the night. He's actually pretty shy and didn't make any move to talk to me, so for a while I thought he wasn't interested at all. But I kept thinking about him, he seemed different

>How long have you been together
about a year of actually being an exclusive item, and there was 6 months before that of just figuring out what we wanted with each other and how to get that since we initially didn't live near eachother

>what's the thing of him/her you love the most
he's genuinely a nice guy, doesn't talk down to me and treats me like an equal to him. we both have some mental health struggles, but we always help and support each other. He doesn't play mind games like a lot of guys do and really tries to be as genuine as he can be with his anxiety making it hard for him to open up. He's the only guy who's ever been able to make me feel comfortable in my own skin, I know he loves me just as much when we're playing video games in bed as when I'm dressed up with full face makeup at a gig. He motivates me to be the best person I can be without making me feel pressured to change. I am so so lucky to have him, I just hope I can make him as happy as he makes me. God I love that guy

>>18102618
I'm glad you've find your one

>>18102400
Ayy lmao

I met him on /soc/

I met my wife at work. First impression was basically all work related, training and showing her (like countless others) how to do the job. I didn't have any romantic interest until we got to know eachother over a couple years. She was with her highschool bf on and off and then they split for good. We got to know eachother more then started talking outside work and hanging out. We have been together for almost 10 years now and married for 5. We have 2 kids. What I love most about her is that she is loyal, honest, and devoted to our family.

It's about my ex, but she was the first serious relationship I've had, so I want to tell it anyway.
>how did you meet
At a concert/party in a squat. I was a bit tired, so I sat down on a couch, and she was next to me, talking to someone who left shortly after. She initiated the conversation about some random thing and we talked, and talked for a long time, for hours till the end of the thing actually.
At some point, I began to think "is this girl into me or what ?" but I thought she was too cute and out of my league, and that she was just a nice and interesting encounter, like you often get in that kind of context.
But when the show ended at like 5 or 6 AM, she told me she didn't have a place to sleep because she lived like 50 kilometers away. So I proposed her to sleep in my room at my student dorm, but I thought "damn, isn't she afraid of sleeping at the place of some random person she just met a few hours ago?". Anyway, we got there, and between the choice of sleeping on the floor or on my bed, she choosed the bed. I held her hand, and the rest is history.

>What's your first impression?
That she was way out of my league, and just being nice toward me because she was just a cool girl who liked to go to that kind of concerts like me (post-punk, noise rock, acid techno afterparties, etc.). Turns out she saw me before, had a crush on me and is more at ease when it comes to flirting, whereas I'm a fucking anxious mess in that area. That said, we had very similar interests and talking with her was just pretty nice.

>How long have you been together
2 years and a half.

>>18102887 (cont.)
>what's the thing of him/her you love the most
We both liked the same kind of music, partying and we both experimented with drugs before and still liked to take them from times to times, but at the same time we knew that taking psychedelics or MDMA every weekend weren't for us anymore. I feel like a lot of girls want someone into the mainstream mass culture that is slightly wacky but not too much, and certainly not someone who is interested by drugs, and she didn't cared about that, like me. We had the same kind of attitude towards that, that is all I wanted to say.
The definition of love by Zizek is the best because he says it is basically accepting the other unconditionally, and finding perfection in imperfection. And that was basically what was going on for a while.
We both have kinda severe anxiety-related disorders and we were supportive of each other in that area. I've also learned a great lot about life just by being with her.
That said, after a while, I began to be more and more annoyed by some parts of her personality, and I guess the same thing was happening for her at that time. So we parted ways. We are still friends though.

>>18102388
We met when i was a date of another guy at his school formal (like prom but aus) and he came over to our table and i talked to him a bit.
honestly i didnt notice him much originally since we're both pretty shy but eventually i ended up with his number and we texted and became best friends, eventually dating.

its been almost 2 years dating now. hes still my best friend and im still his.
the thing i like most is probably just how we can be 100% ourselves around each other. and we have the exact same type of humour. :^)

I was literally going to find the ask the opposite sex thread and ask the same question, op.

Thanks

Uni. Sat next to each other in the first week, started chatting, and we hit it off. Were friends for three years before he asked me out. We've been together for 3 years officially, and I just love how well I we get along. I have never got along with someone as well as him before.

>>18102388
I was being autistic at a party, walked out to this terrace because I couldn't stand the crowd. He was sitting on the floor drinking a beer. Asked him if I could sit there. We talked.

I immediately noticed that he was smart. Much smarter than average. And funny as fuck. I couldn't even see his face much because it was dark outside, so I couldn't care about the way he looked. But I loved his voice and his sense of humour.

We have been together for 2 years. I love how driven he is - he turned his life around and became the best man he could. I am very proud of him for that

>>18102388
>how did you meet
Tinder. I know pretty pathetic
>how long?
3 years
>favorite thing about her
Her personality

>kinda sketchy aquaintence texts out of the blue if I want to hang out and meet his new gf
>say sure because I had a free night
>get hammered with sketchy and actually very attractive and funny chick
>turns out they've been on two dates, met on tinder
>Sketchy gets pissed that I'm talking more to his "girlfriend" than him and does the only reasonable thing
>he fakes a seizure
>magically gets better when I start dialing 911
>tries this like 3 times
>chick visibly creeped out by this weird ass behaviour, I'm getting sick of it (he pulled shit like this before when girls ignored him)
>kick him out of my house
>bone chick
>we talk after and end up hanging out a ton that week

We've been dating for a year and it's the best relationship of my life so far.

>>18102455
actually true story on adv
good read!

>How did you meet your bf?
My friend introduced us when I transferred to their high school sophomore year.
>What's your first impression?
That he was very interesting. He was always up to something weird, goofing around, and I wanted to get to know him better. He made me laugh.
>How long have you been together
Almost three years now. We've been best friends for six.
>what's the thing of him/her you love the most
Everything really. He is amazing.

We met at this cafe I go to regularly. She was sitting there just reading a book all cliché like and sipping on some coffee. She had almost all the stuff I want out a girl looks wise. She got a call from someone and had a bit of a spat. Looked pretty sad afterwards.

I asked her if she was alright and she said yeah. We got to talking and it turns out her boyfriend cheated her the day before. After a little bit we enhanced numbers and went our separate ways.

I got up the courage to text her and ask her out. She was hesitant at first but accepted. We had a great time at a carnival and I manged another date. After walking her home I have her a kiss and after that we were exclusive for three long years.

[spoiler]then I woke up ;_;

>>18104708

knew it was fake from the first sentence

pick a better setting than a cafe next time

>>18104712
Ahahahha you right man

Saw her one night while waiting for a cab in my neighborhood. There were no cabs around so we were both waiting for a ride. When a car pulled up we both approached it and eventually we decided to share it.

We talked quite a bit on the way and asked for her name just in case 'we share a cab again'. I should have asked for her phone number, not sure if it would have been creepy. She also offered to pay for both of us.

Felt guilty for some reason because I was on my way to fuck another girl, no strings attached. And yet I ended up by chance sitting with this beautiful and mysterious stranger in the same taxi cab.

Hopefully, to be continued...still waiting to see her again one day/night

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>>18105616
You dun goofed up.

>>18102388
We met on a Pokemon forum 9 years ago, we had a ldr ( he's from New Zealand and I'm in the Netherlands) he moved here to be with me 8 years ago, we are still together and happy.

>>18105846
Like to add that I love it that we both share same interests in games and music, hes caring and helpful and tries his best to make me happy. he's an amazing person.

>>18105846
>>18105852

Oh I read your story like a year ago and cried.
You're adorable.

>>18102388
>how did you meet you gf?
>implying I ever had one

>How did you meet your gf/bf?
I'd been dating her older sister a few years
>What's your first impression?
"She seems smarter and prettier than her siblings."
>How long have you been together and what's the thing of him/her you love the most
7 years, her good taste, especially in art.

I saw you, all five digits glowing ING the moonlight. So I ask you, "Palmella would you like to meet my tunnel snake?" It's a relationship that has a lot of beatings but we both like how handy things are.

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>>18106476
hey brotha, fellow no gf here

>>18102403
Totally read this in his voice

>How did you meet your bf?
Mutual friends, we were kind of pushed together b/c they were a couple, and they wanted us to be a couple too pretty much.

>My first impression
He was pretty big and muscular back then, like "I can't see my nipples because of my pecs are too big", so I was somewhat intimidated. Not because I thought he was aggressive/roided/whatever because I couldn't understand what he saw in me being a somewhat chubby introvert. My only previous relationship had been with a lanky basementdweller which I deemed more of a "relationship prospect"

>How long have you been together?
Roughly a year

>What I love the most
That we have the same interests and always have something to talk about, no real conflict expect the menial shit like taking out the trash, cooking etc. It isn't weird for either of us to spend time at the opposite end of a room and doing you own thing.

>>18102388

>First impression
I'd broken up with a shitty ex and was in a very "fuck relationships" phase, so when we first met I thought he'd make a good friend with benefits but that was it. It wasn't until we kissed the first time that some part of me was like "fuck I think there might be something else going on" but I did a good job of denying it for a while

>How long have you been together
Over six years now

>What's the thing you love most about him
It's hard to explain and requires language that's cheesy as fuck, but the best way I can describe it is like we're two pieces of the same soul or something. It's not that we have a bunch of things in common, because we absolutely have our differences, but we just seem to operate on the same wavelength. I can only describe it in abstract language for some reason

Not as many "we met online" examples as I expected

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>>18107459
Guess I shouldn't even try online dating again

>How did you meet your gf?
Dating app for urban yuppie types

>What was your first impression?
Very literary, taste for science fiction, mysterious past overseas

>How long have you been together?
About 2.5 months so far

>What's the thing about her you love the most?
Quite clever, slightly devious professional tendencies but trustworthy, likes to wrestle in bed

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>my first time drinking
>she walks in
>recognize her from class
>me being shitfaced at this point i immediately walk up to her and ask her if she wants to fuck
>she says no
>dont care still hit on her all night bragging about my six pack
>turns out she has an ex convict bf who almost beat someone to death once
>he calls her several times
>i pick up the phone and tell him to fuck off basicly
>told him they're over and that she doesnt want to talk to him anymore
>black out and get carried home by my bros

found out later he had punched a hole in the wall and threatened to kick one of my best friends down a stairwell because he thought he was the guy that was acting "so fucking cool" on the phone

>mfw i find out about all of this weeks later while in bed with her

We met on 4chan.
Been together almost a year. (yes, LDR inb4 "it's not real" whatever it's my reality and I feel fulfilled for now)
The thing I like most about him is that he is very complicated. The challenge of being with him is great but so is the reward.

Saw her on the train, had a bit eye contact as I was going off the train. Got interested, looked her up, she seemed non-normie. Ended up adding her on facebook and telling her that I found her cute, interesting so I stalked her up. We're together for a long time and it's going well.
Find someone weird that likes your weirdness

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>>18102388
Worked with a guy that was pretty cool - he was in a group of us that hung out after work on Fridays. He was engaged. His apartment was just across the street from mine.
One Saturday he called up out of the blue and explained his fiance was visiting
>Like I care
but since the two of them were religious she had brought her friend to chaperone
>Like I care
and - he had set the two of us up on a blind date. All three of them would be over in an hour.
>Fuck a blind date
I hopped in the shower, planning to be out of there in 20 minutes.
As I get out o the shower someone is knocking, so I open the door to my apartment in just a pair of jeans, my hair still wet
>My neighbor was pretty cool and I hoped it was him so we could go drinking
Standing there is my co-worker, a girl I recognized from photos as his fiance, and some girl
>Fucker lied - they just crossed the street and came up
She was 5'7"-5'8", hourglass figure with D tits, but not even close to chubby. Long, black hair, pale skin, and bright blue eyes.
>Love at first sight, I swear it was. I knew, *knew* she was the girl I was going to marry.
They came in, I finished getting dressed, and the 4 of us went to dinner.
>That night she told her fiance she knew I was The One and that we'd marry
Next day the four of us played cards, went to the lake, and then I cooked dinner.
Then she went home.
After 9 months she moved across country to move in with me. 6 months after that we married.

>>18106476
reporting in. I'm actually pretty sociable, but whenever something might turn into a romantic relationship I get anxious and awkward.

>>18102405
How to meet women at places that aren't bars

>>18109165

Not worrying about meeting women is how you meet women. If you chase girls around you'll just scare them off.

Acknowledge ones that give you signs (standing near you on purpose, asking about you, smiling at you, just putting in effort to communicate with you)

The ones that don't approach you, don't approach them in pursuit. You can say something, but be casual and walk away.

>See qt's at place that's not a bar
>Say something casual, say you're at a concert
>"This song is so good!" Smile and walk away. They'll 99% sure say something positive in response.
>They may approach you after, but if not it's 10x easier to go up to them and flirt with them. Since they already saw and communicated with you and you didn't chase them, it makes you stand out and look more attractive
>"Hey didn't I see you earlier?"
>"Yeaaah you said great song! :3"
>"Oh yeah! That was a great song ahha, what's your name?"
>"I'm Heather! :33"
>"Heather! Nice to meet you" smile, maybe shake her hand. Don't offer your name unless she asks. If she asks, especially immediately, chances are she's interested
>"Nice to meet you too! What's your name?"
>"I'm OP. You're so cute I'm glad we ran into each other"
>"haaaa :3333 I like you OP!"


Seriously it's that easy. Don't chase girls and it's 100x easier to find girls who you don't even really have to chase. Also never fear rejection, it's not that bad. If I'm actively putting effort into women, I'll get rejected like ten times in a week but score half or as many dates as I did rejection. Usually 25-50% odds.

>>18102388
asked my friemd if she had single friends, met her, took her to my prom/her prom. been together 8 years.

>>18102618
guy at a pop punk show? thats a red flag

>>18102394
We met through mutual acquaintances to watch some fucking Chinese cartoons.
I thought she was gorgeous, and clearly really into Chinese cartoons, because she could've been pulling dudes from anywhere if she wanted, but she was there, being a dork.
We've been together for seven years. I love her eyes the most, something about the way they sit in her face, and their shape, I can't even explain it, but she has a wholly unique and lovely face. I also adore her little Venus dimples on the lower part of her back. Extraordinarily sensual.

[spoiler]Also, she's been fucking my best friend for the last two months even though we've been married for four and a half years.[/spoiler]