Am I a being a bitch?

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Am I a being a bitch? 2017-03-05 05:08:38 Post No. 18102335
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Am I a being a bitch? Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:08:38 Post No. 18102335 [Report]

I feel like I'm being a bit of a bitch but I just want someone here to confirm it or am I being made a fool of..?

So right now my and my gf are at a stalemate because I wanted to see her see her today but she was out until 3am with her friends, she said she would see me but didn't seem bothered.

I know this is something petty which is why I feel like a idiot but hear me out.. I'm trying to secure out future and were looking to get a house. I've been to the bank, crunching the numbers, budgeting etc and also advising her we should save a bit more but I'm not against her spending too much money etc and told her this despite making 3x what she does and spend less.

All I wanted was to chill with her and discuss our future today but she's at home, maybe sleeping or lying in bed on Facebook or something.

What do you think? Am I overreacting here which I think I am a bit maybe or should she at least be more committed?

Just like to add, it was her friends party because she left work but she will still get to see her and she has opportunity to come home earlier etc.

Don't know what to think..

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:12:45 Post No.18102343
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:12:45 Post No.18102343 [Report]

Buddy, holy shit.

You're trying to rope your gf, (note, not wife) into buying a house with you?

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:14:53 Post No.18102348
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:14:53 Post No.18102348 [Report]

>>18102343
We both want to do this but I'm looking to move from whimsical ideas to actually making an effort, she's my fiancee btw not gf if that helps.

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:19:10 Post No.18102356
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:19:10 Post No.18102356 [Report]

>>18102348
That does change things a decent bit.

I guess to answer your question, you are in fact being a bitch. She's recovering from a night of partying. You can always talk about your future tomorrow. Go buy her some lunch and bring it over and watch some daytime television.

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:28:20 Post No.18102372
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:28:20 Post No.18102372 [Report]

>>18102356
I think you might be right, idk why I am my own worst enemy at times.. almost like I am unintentionally trying to make things worse or I'm being defensive, I think I'm just worried about being hurt perhaps.. I need to figure myself out man

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:30:44 Post No.18102380
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:30:44 Post No.18102380 [Report]

>>18102372
Hey, man, don't sweat it. Being able to step back and self analyze is a learned skill. You'll get there.

Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:36:54 Post No.18102398
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 05:36:54 Post No.18102398 [Report]

>>18102380
Definitely, it's funny how you can lose sight of things when your mind isn't in the right place

Anonymous 2017-03-05 06:03:51 Post No.18102461
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Anonymous 2017-03-05 06:03:51 Post No.18102461 [Report]

kinda. she went out and shes recovering. we dont know whats happened though did you call her / text her? what time is it there? its only 10am here, so if i were in your shoes id know shes sleeping in and will just be over later.

really depends on context.

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